Saturday, December 25, 2010

All is (reasonably) calm, All is (definetely) bright...

Mike is sitting on the couch reading his new James Patterson  book, and the boys are playing with Skip's new Wii game, while I get to relax on the recliner and sort through digital pictures from the last few days.  The dishes are clean, the house is relatively organized, the dog is snoring, and I'm all caught up on laundry. Don't be fooled by the relative calm. The previous 24 hours has been a steady flurry of activity. Activities which included but wasn't limited to:



dressing like elves

male bonding
 

hanging stockings



going to bed with empty stockings...


waking up to full stockings

discovering neat stuff in our stockings

being overwhelemed with gift

issuing citations



eating
 
watching the new popcorn popper do its thing,...

pretending to love "clothing" gifts

getting more gifts

back scratching

and just plain silliness
Hmmm, I wouldn't change any of it, even if I could!

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Flashlights and backscratchers

a book on paper airplanes, a slinky, funky socks, dog treats and a hand-made Christmas pin.  What do they all have in common? They're some of the gifts a 6 & nearly 8 year old pick out when left to their own devices in choosing gifts for their family.  I suppose I could have exercised some parental persuasion, and to be honest, it's generally my first impulse, but thankfully, I thought better of it.  Instead I left it all up to them and allowed  them to follow their own hearts & minds. Their own innocent little hearts & minds. Hearts & minds that don't worry about how much or little the cost of each item, or spending an equal amounts on each person.  As a result, the excitement in the air this morning as we sat on the living room floor to wrap and tag each gift was at an all time high. Each gift was lovingly (if not haphazardly) wrapped, (in 10 times the amount of paper & scotch tape needed) and tagged (in the unmistakable  and emergent cursive and printing of two little boys).  They giggled with happiness, and speculated on the response of each recipient. 


 When all the gifts were wrapped and placed under the tree the scurried off to their next adventure  - morning cartoons - clearly content over jobs well done.  As for me, I too had a sense of satisfaction in knowing my boys have learned to take joy in the giving, because after all, Christmas IS the day that God gave the world the best present EVER - his son. And while I had until this point, lamented over the fact that circumstances - family health issues, unanticipated employment changes, and winter colds and ailments -
had left me way behind in all my usual Christmas planning/shopping/organizing this morning with my boys put it all back into perspective. I needn't worry about what I didn't, couldn't or hadn't achieved since none of them have anything to do with the real meaning of the season. 

"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." John 3:16

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Today's accomplishments

It being a non-class day, I decided to get some serious baking done, among other things.  With the assistance of my right hand man, Harry, We managed to bake about 18 dozen triple chocolate cookies:


He was compensated for his task (unwrapping three whole bags of Hershey Kisses) with one cookie per bag of kisses. A fair deal, I'd say...

Generally, the difficult part about making these is waiting for the Hershey's Kiss to harden enough so that they can be stored. The cold temperatures today, however, helped in accomplishing this since we put trays of them outside for about 10 minutes, and they were PERFECTLY chilled!
We also finished off yesterday's cookie of the day, M&M.  I think we have about 16 dozen of these also. Well, minus the ones we ate!


Finally we tried something new. Chocolate dipped Pretzel Rods. They're simple, and taste yummy. I got Four thumbs up on these, and am planning to bring some with us to the Homeschool Group Christmas Party tomorrow!
  
Since Skip woke up barking like a seal (sure sign he'll have a full blown cold by tomorrow ) - he wasn't allowed to help with the cookies...he did of course, get to sample them all. After we finally cleaned up our mess from all the baking, the boys cuddled up on the couch & recliner and watched some cartoons while I got the days laundry finished.

Harry...
Skip
and of course, Sabaka
 Now it's a cup of coffee, email check, a quick lunch for the boys and I'm off to bring Grammie to the doctor.  If I'm lucky, I'll be back home soon enough to start decorating the tree we brought home yesterday.

Yup, another one of those busy weeks....

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Chosing to focus on the positives...

Within the last month my husband's job was eliminated, leaving him "unemployed", my mother has been diagnosed with breast cancer, and my youngest son has been going through a testing stage. It has been a bit overwhelming at times, but through it all I know that all of this is SUPPOSED to happen WHEN it's happening. I understand it's all part of God's plan, and that HE alone knows the reasoning. Until then I'm just gonna go on faith, and continue to praise him for the wonderful things he does for me. Right now I'm REALLY thankful that he has finally delivered Samuel Ian Vladislav to the Wokurkas and that in a month or so their entire family will be together for the FIRST TIME!

Remembering...

Back to almost two years ago when we finally took permanent custody of Harry from the Orphanage in Angarsk Siberia.  I remember so clearly how emotional it was for us to tuck him into bed at night!

Well today our friend Lisa brought her son Samuel Ian Vladislav (S.V. for now) home from the orphange in the same region of Russia. She has shared a quick recap of her day, and the emotions SHE experienced, and then took a picture of sweet SV sleeping in his bed in their apartment.  Just a flood of emotions as I think back and remember that day for us!

Thank you Lord for putting these children in our care!

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Proverbs 25:25.says:

"Like cold water to a weary soul, is good news from a distant land"

To that end, I'm thrilled to report that the prayers of our friends Lisa & Darren were answered today!

After staying up most of the night waiting for news on the outcome of their hearing in Siberian court today, I literally jumped for joy when at approx. 8:30 a.m., this status report from Lisa showed up:

"For this child I prayed, and the LORD granted me the petition I asked of Him" @4:10 am I became the proud mother of Samuel Ian Vladislav Wokurka. To God be the glory, great things He has done!

A court hearing that they thought would last 3 or 4 days was over in one, and finally - FINALLY, the child they've held in their hearts for all these years became their son legally. I know the joy they feel, and am so very, very happy for them! Paperwork, including issuance of new birth certificate, Russian passport, etc. will take another 6 - 8 weeks, and hopefully by Christmas they will be reunited with the precious 6 and 3 years old sons back home in South Carolina.   

We may be 1/2 a world apart, but we wanted to commemorate the day, so decided to make dinner a celebration. Skip's blessing before we ate was adorable: Dear God, thank-you for this day, thank you for this food, and thank you for the judge saying Vlad could come home from Russia...."  Discussion at the table of course centered around our own adoption journeys, and brought back some priceless memories.  Following dinner we celebrated with a hand written banner, party hats, horns and a De-li-cious chocolate cake. I used a photo editing program to come up with  the sketch of the new family of 5 by blending a picture of Darren, Lisa, Aidan & Asher, with one of Samuel from several months back.


Thanks to all the family members & friends who kept this family in their prayers. I know it meant alot to the them, and to us!  Although their journey is coming to an end, a whole new chapter in their lives is about to unfold, and I'm so happy we can share in it all!



Thursday, October 21, 2010

Russian recipes!

My friends being in Russia for their court hearing, combined with a post containing a similar recipe on Nicole's Blog, I dug up this recipe I came up during our last trip to Russia. In Russia the cheese I used was "Knight" cheese, but at home I use cheddar/harvati. I also like to add thinly sliced squash, when available!  I"m cutting and pasting the post I did with the recipe while still in Russia:

When we were at Angarsk Hills 3 weeks ago, I had a dish that consisted of chicken topped with mayonnaise, bacon bits, chopped tomatoes, mushrooms (promptly removed, thank you) and cheese. It was DE-licious. I dreamt about it afterwards! How sick is that? I tried to duplicate it but it was nas-TEE!


Anyway, with little else to do sometimes, I experimented and came up with my latest obsession. I eat it every 2 days! I’m calling it Russian vegetable medley.I peel a potato, then with a peeler, slice it up thin. I do the same with carrot (the carrots here are huge, so I only need one). Add a thinly sliced small onion, ½ of a red, green or yellow pepper, then add a thinly sliced tomato. I suppose if you’re one of those sick people who actually like mushrooms, you could throw some of those in. Mix them all up in a bowl. Now for the bacon flavor, I had fried some bacon the other day and saved the fat. I use just a little to grease the casserole dish, then toss in the vegetables. Next I mix 2 heaping tablespoons of mayonnaise and 2 heaping spoons of sour cream. Spread that on top of the veggies, then add 2/3 cups of shredded cheese. I bake it on who knows what temp (the stove has no temp. control so I am for med-low) til the cheese is brown. Yummy!

Here’s the before picture (before baking that is:

And the finished product:

TRY IT, YOU'LL LOVE IT!

Irkutsk connections

Our friends are in Russia right now, petitioning the court for permission to adopt the little boy they have claimed in their hearts for five years, "V".  The little boy they first met at 3 is now 8, but his heart remains pure, by the Grace of God. When they arrived at the orphanage in a very remote town in Siberia, to reconnect with their son before the court hearing, V ran to them and jumped into their arms when he spotted them! I can imagine the joy they felt, being welcomed so warmly by the little boy they have fought for, for five long years!

On their blog, our friends posted pictures of the area he is living, as well as pictures of  "V" playing with his parents, as well as pictures of the apt. they stayed in while visiting him at the orphanage.  Skip was excited to see the new pictures and took alot of time looking through them. Here are his comments/observations:
SKIP: Is that the same playground WE used to play in?
ME: No, just looks the same.

(Viewing the picture of the single bed in the bedroom )
SKIP: Hey, that's the apt. we stayed in the last two times.
ME: No, just looks the same.

(In response to the kitchen pictures)
SKIP: Yup, that's the kitchen alright! I guess all kitchens in Russia has one of those things that heat water up for tea, huh?
ME; Yep, I think they do!

And finally,

SKIP: "Vlad looks happy that's he's with his mother and father FINALLY (emphasis on FINALLY)
ME: Absolutely buddy, absolutely"

A little bit later

SKIP: I need to remember to pray that the Judge says Vlad can go home with his parents, and have brothers.
ME: That's a great idea...and then (unspoken)That's my boy!
 
We're all praying that this story comes to end soon. Their original court hearing was held yesterday and was postponed because the prosecutor had an emergency en route. They will go back to court tomorrow (9pm EST) to continue the hearing.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Took me awhile

But I found the link on SouthWest Airlines Website!

http://www.southwest.com/about_swa/press/if_prindex.html

10 years ago

my life as I knew it changed in ways I couldn't imagine. Ten years ago today I hit the jackpot...of sorts. Ten years ago today I married the most amazing husband and father. Praise God!

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

If you needed a license to blog

...they probably would have already revoked my license for 2010 for non-performance, since I've been SO bad about keeping up. I think I have more "I promise to be better posts" this year than I do "real" ones! That being said, "I promise to do better"!. In speaking to my friend Irina this morning, I realized that I didn't even post about our family trip to Disney World yet. It's coming - along with a dozen more. (Stop snorting, I'm serious this time!)  My goal is two "catch-up" posts a day for the next week or so, and in doing so, hopefully, my blogging license will not longer be in danger....

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Late Breaking News:





Interviewer: Harry Holmes, you've just celebrated your 6th birthday with your grandparents, parents and brothers, what are you gonna do next?? 

Harry:  I'm goin' to Disney World!!


Me: Yep, three weeks from tomorrow we're flying to Orlando to celebrate Harry's 6th birthday with Mickey and company... Woot!