Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Puzzle Pieces

Most people know that I love a good puzzle. I can literally spend hours studying the pieces before putting one into the puzzle. I like to put it exactly where it belongs and I make a goal never to put one in "just to see if it fits". Try it.. it's harder than it looks especially when so many look the same. Now that I have bored you to tears with my puzzle talk and if you are still reading ... here is the point of this post. 

My kids are a puzzle. I have to study recipes for hours trying to keep them fed and in good health. I study internet web sites and grill their doctors for information. I don't accept anything as "true" unless i feel it really fits with all their symptoms as well as the spirit telling me so. Then every once in a while something pops up and the spirit screams "That's it! The missing piece to the puzzle you were looking for!" Well a HUGE Puzzle piece fell into my lap yesterday for Tanner. 

When people ask us about my kids food allergies, then ask me about Tanner we say "He's fine! He is daddy's eating buddy!" But honestly that's isn't the whole truth. Nothing but the truth would be that we didn't know what it was!! Tanner has this amazing ability to always know when he is going to throw up, or vomit, upchuck the whole caboodle. He even always makes it the bathroom in time! The funny thing is that is happens at random times. As hard as I have tried I have never been able to connect it with any food (and we are very good at decoding food allergies here) He also randomly will get hives.. again for no reason and with no food connection i  could think of, and his allergy tests have always been negative.  In Utah the allergist told us he had chronic hives , or hives with no purpose. I knew that wasn't correct. But he is a very happy little boy who doesn't complain and is growing and thriving! You would think that the next step would be to get him checked for an Eosinophilic Disease like Brooklyn. But that didn't feel right either , like I said he is a happy growing thriving boy.. who randomly vomits and gets hives. 

Then last April or May (to lazy to look it up right now) I had given Tanner some Ibuprofen (motrin) for some leg pain he was having.  Soon he started to go down hill and not breath well so we took him to the ER. It turned out he was wheezing and they gave him a breathing treatment and an antibiotic shot "Just in case" he had no other symptoms of being sick. I noticed when they were giving him the shot that he had a few hives on his leg. I wasn't too concerned as he gets those sometimes.. randomly.  But I was glad later because then I knew he hadn't been reacting to the antibiotic. Later that evening I gave him some more Ibuprofen and he got hives EVERYWHERE!!  A small puzzle piece clicked into place and we avoided Ibuprofen. 
Yesterday during our regular allergy visit I brought up that ER visit with questions such as "Will he also react to other NSAIDS (Non Steroidal Anti inflammatory) ?" When the
 doctor said "Does he throw up once in a while even when he isn't sick?"
Me:" YES!"
DR. : "Does he get hives sometimes?"
Me: "Yes"
DR. "I know what the problem is..."

Those words are so sweet to hear. You can't have a true allergy to Ibuprofen because it isn't a protein structure.. it is a chemical. More specifically a plant chemical Salicylate that has been duplicated by scientist to put in a more concentrated form for medical purposes in Aspirin and Ibuprofin. It is also added to food perservatives, colorings, and flavors. 
Tanner is Intolerant to Salicylate's. It's a mouthful, and I am still learning and getting used to it.. but here is what we know so far. Salicytate Sensitivity is dose dependant. It will slowly build up in your system until it hits a breaking point and your body tries to get rid of it. i.e. vomiting, hives, etc... That is why his reactions seemed random.  Salicylates occur in every day food. in fact the more healthy it is.. the more salicylates it probably has. It is in most every fruit and seasoning and herb, and in a large amount of vegetables, especially anything known to be anti inflammatory like cucumbers, honey, and onions.  You find it in processed meats, corn ingredients, and anything fruit flavored. There is a LONG list of foods he should not be eating because those foods have a high amount of Salicylates in them. In short his diet should now be the exact opposite from the girls. He should be eating plenty of dairy, eggs, Fresh unseasoned meats,  wheat and other grains (not corn though) and soy. and to stay away from anything too processed and fruity.  Whoa! I may never leave my kitchen again. Oh- and he can never have Ibuprofen or aspirin or other NSAIDS. How sensitive he is, we may not know completely until we get a handle on his new regiment and see if how much and IF things change... then see where his tolerance level is.  So bear with us! I feel very overwhelmed. and yet SO grateful !!! Hopefully we can help his little tummy and itchies. 



Tuesday, February 12, 2013

How do I love Thee...

Let me count the ways.  That has been my theme for Valentines this year. I am slowly building up a collection of holiday decorations. I love to craft and create, but believe it or not I do not like to decorate. I have a hard time making my counters look like the picture I imagine in my head. But this mailbox is one super cute I idea I can be proud of :) Isn't it cute? We have been putting little valentines and love notes to each other in it. I think I will fix the bow though. My next Valentines project it to make a Valentines countdown board that says "How do I love Thee, let me count the ways" then will have different hearts counting down from 14 to 1. On the back of the hearts will be scriptures and quotes about love. One will be turned over each day! I really do keep busy, I promise not all my time is spend on projects, but they are really fun to talk about. 


A few weeks ago when the weather was nice, Ty took the kids paddleboarding. They were kind of scared   ( from the phrase "Don't move an inch! The water is cold!") but that made it extra fun. I think Tanner was trying to fall in and swim though. He wore his swimsuit "just in case".  He is still just as much a character as ever. We always see his primary teachers in the hall and they just laugh and say "Tanner is so funny in class!" He recently got some cowboy boots. As soon as he got them he went and put on his cowboy hat and a cowboy shirt, and ran outside to check out his reflection in the windows. When he heard us girls giggling inside, he looked at us.. posed .. and wiggled his eyebrows at us and then winked. What a charmer!!! 





                                                         
                                                          Do you like the rosettes? Cristine is as always such a sweet girl! Lately we have been letting her watch the kids while we go for a 15 min bike ride around the block. She likes to text us every few minutes to tell us the kids are doing fine. Little by little she is growing into quite a young lady. The time when we can leave her for longer amounts of time is so close we can taste it. And she is loving the extra allowance she gets. She is also becoming quite "romantic". She wants to watch romantic movies and read romantic books. Valentines day is right up her alley right now. I keep hoping the phase won't last too long.


 Brooklyn sewed her very first quilt on her own sewing machine! It was just the right size for her american girl doll. I am so proud of her!! She was so careful with the stitching to make sure everything was straight.
 Pretend this picture is rotated to the left! HAHA! This is Brooklyn tying her quilt. We set it up on a mini frame.  She is pretty determined to make something very fancy soon and keeps asking when we can go to the fabric store.

Tysons job has changed a bit too! The company he works for was bought out by a bigger company. So now he works for Ryan Directional which is part of Nabors. So our Insurance is better, the Pay is better and he got a promotion.  Great Job Ty! We are also very thankful the Lord is always mindful of our family and continues to pour in the blessings. 
Happy Valentines Day to you all!!!!!!



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