We're having serious problems with Lacey, our 5 month old pit bull. We're at a loss at this point on what to do. She's destroyed into the quadruple digits of our belongings, and we are lower-middle class to begin with. We've given her everything she needs, she has toys, a bed (well, up until tonight), vet care (recently 130 dollars) and goes to the dog park every single day that it doesn't rain. The basics and beyond are covered for this dog.
She started peeing on the floor after being potty trained, and we found out that she had a UTI. Cost us a pretty penny. It continued after her antibiotics. We discipline her; she just does it more often. Then when we leave the house, or even the same room, she destroys something. Its gotten totally out of control, to the point that we fear that our couch or curtains are next. She's already gotten to the blinds and the carpet...and we rent, so we are in deep trouble with these, and there's no security deposit, it'll all come out of pocket. She's destroyed probably half the things my son owns.
<b>We cannot crate her. This is absolutely not an option for us. </b> Not only does it worsen the anxiety she does have to the point that she'll soil herself and the crate with absolutely no care of the consequence, but then it magnifies her bad behavior. She'll pee on the floor as soon as she has all 4 paws on the floor, even if she's gone straight outside. Not to mention, the noise she makes in the crate is so ungodly that the cops have been called.
I don't know that she has clinical separation anxiety, because she doesn't bark incessantly (anymore) when we leave, and she doesn't <i>always</i> destroy something (she used to). It does happen most often when we can't go to the dog park (they lock it up when it rains, it rained for the last two days), and even though we took her outside to play, she gets depressed when she can't go. You can see it. Sometimes she seems to be in melancholy moods, such as last Saturday, when she peed on the floor 4 or 5 times and destroyed something (at this point, its all blending together). Then she laid in bed and looked totally abused for hours. For no apparent reason.
We don't know what to do. We don't want to get rid of her, because she's a pit and wouldn't survive in a shelter, and I'd be hard pressed to find a rescue for her. We've invested months into this dog, and a lot of money. But we have no idea what to do. Any ideas?
EDIT: Something I didn't mention: I don't work, I'm home with her constantly. I'm not "with" her constantly, a lot of times I'm upstairs and she can't come up where (no puppy-proofing whatsoever, and the cats domain is up here) so I'm not with her all minutes of the day. That, and she only goes to the dog park for an hour a day, its not like she's there so much that she's more dog-oriented than people. If anything, she's way TOO attached to me for being home so much.