June 25, 2005

Bite me doggie

So just a little while ago, I was walking along the streets here by Liahona and I saw someone I knew from school. I had the evening all to myself so I talked for a bit. Let me just tell you, dating in Tonga is a different animal.

I asked her about dating, more specifically dating for fun, and she said that dating for fun is like being a player. That is not cool. I believe in dating for fun as well as dating seriously. In fact, I think too many people date seriously too often. I asked because I wanted to go on a couple of dates while I was here. I am not sure if I am going to now. We shall see.

In any event, we finished talking and I was going to finish my stroll then go home. I started walking up the road so I could loop around to the main road. She told me not to go that way. "The dogs will bite you", she skeptically explained. "Well, if you see me come back this way, you know I got scared", I casually replied.

I was not too worried at first because when I had come that way earlier there really weren't many dogs. However, not a hundred meters up the street sat half a dozen rowdy dogs.

This is the point in the story where the end is basically decided. Now I have been working on increasing my faith lately by a helpful recommendation of a close friend, and I figured that this would be a good time to trust in the Lord. So I silently asked that if I went down this simple road, would I be safe. I felt the spirit and I went. I did pick up a stick though.

I calmly walked up the street and got closer to the dogs to find that there were more than I thought there would be. I did feel a bit nervous but I held on to that trust I had in the Lord. This worry proved to be useless as I passed the dogs.

While thinking back upon the experience, I realized that I did not ask for a miracle. I simple asked if I would be safe. I got my answer and push forth with trust. This my no means was anything bigger than a man walking by a bunch of dogs unharmed. However, I do believe that the Lord should be present in our lives more than he is and asking him for small things like this and listening for the spirit to confirm it is just fine. In fact, it is good because it builds gratitude and teaches one to lean upon the Lord more, which is not a bad thing.

I forget what virtue I need to work on next week, but perhaps I will share it. Only time will tell.

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At 3:34 AM, June 26, 2005, Blogger Vasu Chetty added...

Lol, Justin already trying to get some dates in. That was an awesome experience you related. It's always awesome to sit back and reflect on faith-building experiences. I hope you're having fun in Tonga dude, email me sometime.

At 8:04 PM, June 26, 2005, Blogger Su Chong added...

Faka oli =) especially about the dates..hehe..good luck with that!

At 2:07 AM, June 28, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous added...

hey just! that's great that you're having fun in tonga. keep in touch!

At 3:17 AM, June 28, 2005, Blogger Shaleen added...

That's a good story hun! Glad to hear you're doing well. *hugs*

At 2:26 PM, June 29, 2005, Blogger Kelsey added...

it is nice to hear you're alive. I need to email i know, that's what friends do, i'll start i promise.
just a quick note. I never even thought of asking God about such a small thing.

At 10:01 PM, June 29, 2005, Blogger a man from Saipan added...

Exactly what I have been working on Capt. I don't ask Him or turn towards him enough.

"I Need Thee Every Hour."
"Pray always that ye may come off conqueror."

This is what I am working out and Tonga has given me the enviornment and the structure to do it. I have really needed some personal changes in my life with respect to thing as simple as this.

At 3:45 AM, June 30, 2005, Blogger E.Marie added...

you gotta go through trials. not everything you pray for happens. thats when yu have to realize what you were praying for was not right or there was a different answer.
awesome experience man i have a friend who would of been scared out of her wits because of that.

At 10:06 PM, June 30, 2005, Blogger ML added...

D&C 10:5 and a hymn--good man!
Sister C.

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June 23, 2005

The island style

A few days ago I was madly running around trying to complete numerous tasks on my "To Do List" and the only thing that stopped me from finishing everything was my appointment to fly.

That is right, I flew to New Zealand and it sucked. Well, actually just the weather was bad - I did not realize that it was winter. The place was so dang cold and all I had to wear was thin shorts and a t-shirt. I had to borrow a blanket from the airlines to say alive. Also, we came on the only day that week that was rainy and windy. Everything else was fantastic though. In fact, I really fell in love with the place, even after only a couple of hours. It is easy to see why the New Zealanders are so patriotic.

With so little said, that was only a fraction of my first New Zealand visit. So much more went on. I am at Tonga right now with not enough time to expound. I will write again.

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At 2:55 PM, June 22, 2005, Blogger E.Marie added...

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Im sorry shorts tshirt middle of NZ winter. AHAHAHA Should of warned ya. But im glad you loved it is really easy to fall in love with the place aye? See why I just always have to go back.
Hope your next trip is better. AHAHAHA

At 4:44 PM, June 22, 2005, Blogger Su Chong added...

Ngeli ngahaha!! Monkey boy!!

Lua says: "'Omai 'etau me'i topai"

Su says:

I told ya it's winter in NZ right now!!!

Anywayz, when do you start work?

Check your BYU e-mail.

Talk to ya later..

Ps. Koeha ho fika telefoni??? =P

At 1:08 AM, June 23, 2005, Blogger Shaleen added...

Yay for New Zealand!! Yay for Tonga!! Glad to hear that you're good overall. Miss ya!

At 4:21 AM, June 23, 2005, Blogger Vasu Chetty added...

Haha, now you kind of know how I felt coming from winter in Australia to summer in Hawaii, I almost died. Anyways, it's pretty warm here in Utah, and I have internet access, yay! I think I'll spend all today reading and watching movies.
And Stuff,
~Vasu Chetty

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June 02, 2005

Words don't hurt

Self discovery is fantastically important. I just get sick of it sometimes. The hunger always comes back though.

Given a seemingly simple decision, I made it more complicated yet finally reached a verdict. I will be going to Tonga this summer for an internship and I am going to love it! I will find out the details tomorrow, but those don't worry me. Too often do I miss the details but still cut it.

What is to be done? I know not.

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At 6:21 AM, June 03, 2005, Blogger Vasu Chetty added...

Sweet action, you're going to Tonga. You're going to have so much fun dude! Party hard, but not too hard. Work smart, not hard. Gain wisdom and knowledge. Help people. I know you'll do great, just make the most of every second of every day =).

At 12:39 PM, June 03, 2005, Blogger Su Chong added...

Wow Vasu...lots of advice to give there for one who hasn't gone on an internship yet (let alone a mission =P)

But anywayz Justin, 3 words for you:

Manatu'i Kohai Koe

-peace out-

At 1:48 PM, June 03, 2005, Blogger Judge of the Whetten's added...

I saw go, stay alive, leave the place better then you found it what ever the cost.

At 7:05 PM, June 03, 2005, Blogger Vasu Chetty added...

Su, I don't need to go on an internship or a mission to give good advice.

At 8:43 PM, June 05, 2005, Blogger Vasu Chetty added...

Hey, at least you know I listened to you =).

At 11:25 AM, June 06, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous added...

that's awesome justin! i have a couple of tongan friends... they're really cool. kind of crazy, but really cool! i'm sure you'll have a great time! just out of curiosity, what exactly is the internship for? just to go to tonga? or to study something? ;)

At 3:39 PM, June 06, 2005, Blogger Vasu Chetty added...

Don't worry mal, as far as I can tell he isn't chasing any girl... =). Okay that's probably not what you meant when you said study something, but yeah. I'll shut up now cos I know Justin's going to give me some shock therapy.

At 3:09 AM, June 08, 2005, Blogger E.Marie added...

I was thinking about the title words can hurt but yea whatever. and self discovery is just one of those things you have to do sometimes it is enjoyable sometimes its ahhhh.
I know you will have a great time in tonga and we will all be waiting in fall for you to come back.

At 10:46 AM, June 08, 2005, Blogger Vasu Chetty added...

Words only hurt if you let them.

At 8:24 PM, June 08, 2005, Blogger Amanda/Mandie added...

Carpe diem. Carpe diem, bro.

At 9:39 AM, June 09, 2005, Blogger Rare Insights added...

Congrats on going to Tonga! Do you need a pen pal? I like writing letters!

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