It's called time management

Studying..

Working..

Two different worlds.

After two months working, I still find myself dwelling over my student life. It's not like I'm not over it, but life seems so simple back then. hmm.. maybe simple is not the right word to describe my student life. Should I say amazing? Even when it's boring, my friends and 1 somehow find things to make our lives interesting.

Working life, on the other hand, seems more complicated. I think by far, this week has been most challenging. I have been working for two months, and yet, I face new challenges everyday. every single day. Especially this week. There was never a day that went by without a problem to be solved. Gosh. Lots of problems. But so little time to solve. And you need to solve it straight away. there and then. And the patient is just right in front of you. So how? 

You see, working, you get tested all the time. every moment is precious. and working in a private hospital means working in a fast pace, but at the same time maintaining a high level of accuracy and efficiency.

Tough.

So, in the midst of all the stress at work, I'm still glad that I have my family and friends to go to and rant about the problems I face. And somehow, it makes everything better. Everything seems to be OK and suddenly you realise, work is work. when you need to spend quality time with your loved ones, leave all your work-related problems behind. Maybe rant once. and then move on.

So, for those of you who seem to not have time for anything else other than work, think again. you need that quality time with your loved ones. make some time for them. I know for those who work more than 10 hours a day, this seems impossible. but at some point, you have to realise, work is work, and you have to have a life too. so take an hour or two out of your weekend and go meet up with some friends or family members. I personally believe, a good work-social life balance could improve your mood at work, hence increasing your work efficiency. I know exhaustion is an excuse to ignore your social life, but seriously, from my own experience, friends and family help to lift the burden off your shoulder. just by talking to them, really. or maybe a good laugh too.

Owh dear Malaysians, what have we become?

Recently, we witnessed the outrage against the infamous Sharifah Zohra, whilst the famous Ms Bavani became a somewhat national hero.

I never for a minute condone to this act by Sharifah Zohra. It was undoubtedly very rude. But the reaction showed by fellow Malaysians regarding this event was even more upsetting. Not only did the audience in the hall clapped and cheered for her made us feel sick to our stomach, but I myself felt sick reading people's spiteful comments towards the woman. Yes, what she did was wrong, but  it's even worse to watch the rest of the nation stoop down to her level. 

For our dear Bavani, yes, she gave out all the facts, but I'm sorry to say the way she conveyed her message was a bit too over the top. Yes, freedom of speech is what we're fighting for in this country. But I think, there is a better way to convey a message than how Bavani did. 

Our country is going through major changes in terms of politics and social. We want this and that, asking for all sorts of things. But we as Malaysians, what have we done for the country so far? Does that question ever come across our minds? Nowadays, everything that happens in Malaysia is somehow related to politics. literally, EVERYTHING. Malaysians are segregated by which political party they support for the upcoming general election. Sometimes, I wonder, when willl we ever stop pointing fingers to the government, and admit that certain things are our fault? 

I raised this question to my friends: "I don't understand how some of my patients can't speak English and Malay". And a few of them answered : blame the education. 

FYI, the government does not shape the upbringing of our young generation. It comes mainly from your own parents, how they shape you and how they raise you. Kids only spend about 7 hours in school from Mondays to Fridays. The rest of the time, they are under their parents' care.

How can you blame the education provided from the government when we actually learn English and Malay since the tender age of 6? Even kindergartens teach the kids in English!

So, dear Malaysians, when will ever look at ourselves and say, "hey, it's my fault my kid can't speak English. coz we don't speak that language at home".

My parents insisted on having my primary and secondary education in Subang Jaya, eventhough we live in Shah Alam. Why? Because they wanted me to be able to mix with all races and at the same time be in a healthy, competitive academic environment. And of course, a better chance to learn and speak English amongst my friends. Not to say that I wouldn't get the same benefit in Shah Alam school, but gotta admit, 90% of the population there is my own race. At the same time, my parents never stopped preaching about the importance of speaking good English and how that skill can bring you far especially in your career. 

So, looking back, would I do the opposite of whatever my parents did? Hell no! and FYI, I had my primary and secondary education in public schools (only form 4 and 5 I was in KTJ). I turned out alright, didn't I? And so did all of my close friends and many others that I know! 

So dear friends, I know it's that time of the year when we get so passionate about the political parties we support and how we like to just point at the government "it's their fault we turned out like this!". Everytime I log into my Facebook, it's all about hating the government and supporting the opposition. I get it that everyone wants the opposition to rule. But, when did we ever take a second to think and be grateful for what our country has achieved since independence and how much it has developed? When did we ever think that Datin Seri Rosmah Mansor is the least of our problem and there are more problems to be solved amongst us?

I think we Malaysians have a huge problem. The problem is RESPECT. I feel like many of us are harsh, ignorant and disrespectful. Well, this is what I noticed since working in a hospital. I deal with harsh patients and also colleagues. Not to mention, ON THE ROAD! So, when will we learn to screw this word "RESPECT" into our heads?

Try

When you're back in Malaysia, you are definitely stuck with the radio stations like hitz and flyfm, which play the same songs over and over again. I have a bad habit of not being able to drive alone without listening to music (pls don't tell my mom). 

So the current addiction is Pink's latest song called Try. The chorus keeps on playing in my head.

Where there is desire
There is gonna be a flame
Where there is a flame
Someone's bound to get burned
But just because it burns
Doesn't mean you're gonna die
You've gotta get up and try, try, try

I appreciate songs with deep, meaningful lyrics. Maybe most of you interpret this song as for someone who gets screwed over by a guy, basically a song for heartbroken.

But I interpret it differently.

It's mainly about overcoming your problems and telling you to keep trying eventhough you feel down, or worst case scenario, feel like committing suicide. every problem has its solution. Do not let it burn you til you wanna die. 

2012: Year of success, 2013: Year of ?

2012 has been really kind to me. 

I think year 2012 has taught me a lot, and also I had achieved a lot. 

Alhamdulillah. His blessings have been non-stop, i couldn't be more grateful. 

I know ppl do all this new year's resolution. but i never did, and probably never will.
I don't think I would like the feeling of breaking my resolution.
it ain't cool like that.

owh owh. btw, i'm on a short holiday. started from Saturday afternoon til today. and work again tomorrow. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.. and tomorrow the jam will start. with everyone starting work and school. traffic is gonna be hell. let's just hope for the best, 

I may not have a new year's resolution but one thing that I pray and hope for is that I'll be a fully registered pharmacist by end of this year. Insya Allah I shall continue working at SDMC. 
I guess 2013 is a mystery. 
I can't wait to explore the year.