Rebekah started her new swim team / class. I had high hopes. Unfortunately it was less than a promising start. First there was a communication problem with the team's leaders: I wanted communication, they didn't. I finally called in a call to the realtor that helped us purchase this house and he called someone he knew and left a message to call me back. A long time later that happened. Meanwhile one person told us to do this, another told us to do another thing.... Crazy.
But that wasn't my only problem. The instruction Rebekah was getting was tremendously poor. She was put in a class where some kids had trouble swimming the width of the pool where Rebekah was use to swimming the length. Kids were swimming down and back wherever they wanted, not using down on left, back on right. Kids were slamming heads.
It got so bad I actually got up from my seat and grabbed the head coach. "Can you resolve my concerns," I said. I then gave him an earful about how Rebekah's swimming ability has decreased since she started with them. I gave examples of certain things. Then I went on to describe the behavior in the lanes and the fact that the teacher isn't correcting anything, etc. and so on. The coach got up from behind his newspaper and said thank you for being my eyes. At that point I wanted to say, "I wouldn't have to be your eyes if you would get up from behind your cushy chair..." but I didn't.
He came out and brought the head of the swim program in tow. They used their weight and cleaned up the class for the duration they were there. After they left it gradually became poor again. The climax of that practice was one girl pushing off the side to do a back stroke and slamming into another girl who then came out of the water with a bloody face. The teacher looked somewhat shocked as she tried to get the coach to come out from behind his smart phone so he could help her. And where was the parent of this poor child? No one seemed to notice. Horrifying.
Here are some pictures that I took from her duration with that team.
I always thought I would be taking my little girl to an auditorium surrounded by instrument cases, not a gym surrounded by bags and equipment.
After the first day we took her out for dinner and a shake.
She's in the white hat.
Rebekah doing a sit dive for her teacher.
Love that little girl.
Love her so much that one night after I took her to swim only to discover they moved that day's practice to the previous day but just didn't pass on the info to me, seeing that I was new, but assured me they would check into it...., I came home and searched the internet for any other swim opportunity in town. I found a brief mention of a team and their standards on some lady's Facebook post.
I love Rebekah so much that I instant messaged this total stranger. I told her of Rebekah's skills and suggested rather boldly that she makes all of the criteria except the age - they want age 8 and older, Rebe is a young 6. She messaged me back and, skipping to the end, said she would talk to the coach.
A week or so later I had still not heard anything back from this stranger. So - deep breath - I took the number she messaged me and texted her. At that point she told me to come to a practice and have Rebekah ready to swim but be okay if it only resulted in a discussion.
The next day I told Rebekah what we were going to do and brought her to practice - all the while acting like I wasn't anxious at all. Once there, the coach made herself busy and I let her do so. We eventually sat down and watched. Rebekah wanted to go but I was determined to talk to this lady. The safety and skills of my child were at stake! Eventually there was a down moment and I took Rebekah's hand and jumped in.
I told her my problems, Rebekah's skills (to which I must have used the wrong terminology and Rebekah corrected me, peaking the coach's attention), and asked if there was anything she could do for Rebekah. At that point she mentioned she couldn't do anything right now but to email her. The assistant coach took over from there.
Skipping to the end, she had Rebekah swim for her and she was impressed. (The assistant actually bonded with me a little. She started her kid at the same school I was leaving and told me it was so bad she would bring a book to read so she didn't have to watch. See, it's not just me.)
The coach emailed me back the next day saying Rebekah could come and talked about meets and so forth. I emailed back basically saying how young Rebekah is and we are not looking for meets right now but basically someplace she could work on her technique until she is mature enough to make those decisions for herself. The coach emailed back that she agreed and told me to come to practice.
Rebekah's been swimming there for a week and a half. They meet every day for a couple of hours, including Saturdays. Part of me thinks I'm in over my head. Most of me worries about Rebekah, but she seems to be doing well. She is obviously younger than the rest of the group, not only physically but mentally, but if they are willing to work with it I suppose I should let it happen. And how awesome is Rebekah's skills that they are willing to do that!
Don looked up the head coach. Apparently she swam in the olympics at 15. Won a few medals. Oh, and that lady I instant messaged? Her son is a 3 time state campion. Yes, I'm even more intimidated and pondering my boldness.