This annoys me

When people infer that overweight women, especially those over 25, should not be choosy when looking for a companion. When they say 'Well, you are 39, and overweight...you can't expect to find Prince Charming. Settle for a nice peasant. Or a frog.'

Rrr. It just feeds into the 'Fat girls are desperate and lonely and should just be grateful for what they get' stereotype.

And am I being unreasonable, or are bookstores, libraries, coffeeshops, etc. bad places to go to emet someone with some brains? It was insinuated to me by someone not very picky that I am an intellectual snob because i like to try and meet people there. as opposed to cheesy adult fun matchmakers.

Oh, and I am thinking of making a community for fat, cynical, sarky women as opposed to all the 'happy sunshine sparkle fun I love being fat here's another picture of my ass w00t! communities here.'

What do you all think?