Confessions from a fat (happy) fag

Dramatherapist in training, living. Just living life and enjoying the small moments. Looking for Folks to enjoy them with me.

"Life is like a slab of meat. Cut off all the fat. Only eat the tasty stuff."


Who I Want to Meet: people living their dreams, people not afraid to love and be loved, deep people, funny (haha) people, reciprical giving people, good natured people....

What happens to a dream deferred?

Does it dry up
like a raisin in the sun?

Or fester like a sore--
and then run?

Does it stink like rotten meat?
Or crust and sugar over--
like a syrupy sweet?

Maybe it just sags
like a heavy load..

Or does it just explode?
- Langston Hughes

"Men are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy...... So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree."

Your Life Path Number is 22

Your purpose in life is to use your power for good Of all the life paths, yours has the most innate power. Your power lies in your vision, and you must recruit others to help you in this vision. You are able to be a great idealist, but you still have the practicality to get things done. In love, you tend to be a big romantic - but you also tend to keep your distance. You have a lot of potential, and it's sometimes hard to live up to. Sometimes you just feel like slipping into obscurity and doing nothing. You tend to be prone to dramatic emotions, until you step back and look at things honestly.

My Manifesto

1. There is more to me than my penis. Those who wish to know that aspect of me would do well to get acquainted with one or more of my other aspects.

2. I am not a partial person seeking my other half in order to complete me. I am a whole person seeking my complement.

3. Open relationships inevitably fail. Casual sex with a third party can not and will not make the bond between you and your partner stronger.

4. If you were single less than a month ago, and now refer to the man in your bed as your “partner,” you are deluded. Unless and until you have been formally joined in some type of commitment ceremony and/or have cohabited for a period of no less than one year, you are boyfriends. If that.

5. I do not apologize for the following: my brains; my sense of humor; my love of showtunes; my taste in movies, television, books or music; my fashion sense; my friends; my profession; My ability to say what is exactly on my mind!; my sexual appetite, my turnons and turnoffs; my willingness to be anally penetrated; my hobbies; and/or my vocabulary(or lack there of ).

6. Anyone who claims to be “taken,” “happily partnered,” “married,” “seeing someone,” or otherwise coupled should immediately remove revealing nude photographs from the Internet. If you’re all that happy with your relationship, you don’t need to be advertising your wares. And if you’re unhappy, don’t passive-aggressively flirt with single boys on the Web instead of dealing with your real issues.

7. If you are in a relationship, I will not have sex with you. Period.

8. If I ask to see your picture, and the first thing you send me doesn’t include your face, our conversation is over.

9. I would rather stay in and watch television, a movie, or cook dinner for a small group of friends than go out and spend $30 on booze at a dank pickup bar.

10. My pursuit of happiness is neither inferior nor superior to yours: It is simply different.

11. I am not perfect, but I am always working to improve myself on many levels. pursuit of perfection is futile.

12. When I realize I’ve screwed something up, I try to apologize for it.

13. Don't think by telling me what I am supposed to do, that you will get your way. I abhore social nicities.