Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Little Miss - 2 Month Update


Weight/Height: From her 2 month well checkup on September 10: she weighs 14.13 pounds (96th percentile), measures 23.5 inches (74th percentile) and has a big 'ol noggin like her brothers at 42 centimeters (96th percentile).

Eating: Oh 3rd baby, how silly were your parents to think we'd get you on a schedule.  Life for you is on the go! We know that you're going to want to eat every 3 hours or so during the day, but overnight you're going longer stretches which is great!  You usually only give us 1 true middle of the night wakeup usually around 2 to 3am.  You're still eating 4 ounce bottles, but this month we tried a couple different formulas - Similac Advanced, Sensitive and Total Comfort.  Daddy and I decided Similac Advanced is the best for you. Sometimes when you go a longer stretch between eating you will eat 5 or 6 ounces, but thats rare.  With your 2 month checkup, momma encouraged getting you on Zantac.  It wasn't just the spitting up, but the congestion and struggled feedings.  Dr. B agreed and you're taking 1.4mL of Zantac twice a day now.  It has helped you have easier feedings so yay!  In month 2, things were a little off with our trip to VA and the Outer Banks as far as schedules and averages since momma and daddy weren't the only ones taking care of you (yay for Grandma B. & Auntie Karen!!), but you maintained eating around 25 to 26 ounces a day still so we can keep your weight up.

Sleeping: Month 2 just intensified your love of a swing nap.  And we're all about keeping you happy, little miss.  You're still sleeping a lot, but your newborn slumber is wearing off a bit during the day.  Once big brother started preschool and we went on vacation morning naps are morning cat naps here and there, with a big long afternoon siesta.  Which works great with your brothers' schedules so no complaints here!  You usually nap in the carseat or the swing for daytime naps, but you're still  sleeping swaddled up in the Nap Nanny for overnight.  You've given us a few all nighters, but usually you're still waking up for a middle of night dreamfeed around 2-3am.  You sleep best with some white noise, a pacifier and being swaddled up - until you're hungry and you want your hands to suck on, then you want out of the baby burrito.  You averaged around 14 to 15 hours of sleep a day this month, with most of that happening in the afternoons and overnight. You definitely prefer to be asleep by 7:30 - 8pm and are waking up for the day around 7am with dreamfeeds overnight.

Diapers: While I really hoped T would be in cloth dipes, she isn't.  Oops.  She's still wearing Pamper's Swaddlers in Size 2.  With a big basket of FuzziBunz just waiting to be sized correctly. 


Clothes: Little Miss was able to spend her hot August days size 3-6 month clothes.  Most days she was in just a onesie from Carter's or Target.  Overnight her jammies are size 3-6 month Gerber white onesies under swaddle blankets.  When she needed to dress up she was sporting Gymboree and Janie & Jack rompers.  She was blessed that so many gifted her fabulous clothes!  She did wear her first Eleanor Rose bubble out and about while on vacation in the Outer Banks and sported her Beaufort Bonnet as well.  Momma also did some fall and winter shopping at the outlet picking up some size 9 month clothes that hopefully she'll grow into by the time it gets cooler come November and December.

Social Butterfly: T got to meet a lot of family and friends in her second month with our trip home to VA and vacation to the Outer Banks!  She spent a week with Grandma and Grandpa B., got to meet Auntie Mackenzie, Great Grandma B., Bebe and my cousins with their little ones.  She has continued to be a baby on the go with me between play dates, errands and just living life.  She can usually be found in the Boba Wrap, but sometimes like at Sam's Club she hangs out in her bucket seat in the cart.  She was finally left in the church nursery this month and did great on Sunday mornings, but not so great on Wednesday nights.  She really wants to be asleep in her bed by 8pm, not out and about.  A night owl, she is not!  This month she had special outings to St. Joe's Picnic, Kentucky State Fair and of course our annual beach trip.

Playtime: As T wakes up a bit more, she still loves being in her swing, bouncer seat and on her playmat, but she still doesn't like tummy time.  This month we brought out the Bumbo seat too and I got a little suction elephant to sit on the tray.  She will stay in the Bumbo for 10 to 15 minutes before getting annoyed, but its been fun to have her sitting on the dinner table with all of us during dinner.  She's made more eye contact with us, given us a glimpse of smiles, enjoys being held and cuddled and is very loved on by big brothers who constantly argue over whose bed she is going to lay on while we're getting ready in the mornings!

Personality: Oh sweet girl.  You are still our laidback, calm, easy baby.  Your witching hours have shifted to earlier in the evening so between 5:30pm and 7:30pm when you like to eat and go to sleep, but otherwise you're awesome!  You still have the newborn personality of being happy so long as someone's cuddling you and while momma usually knows the right tricks to make the best snuggles (paci, shushing, swaddles, rocking) you're happy in anyone's arms.  We adore you so and can't wait to see how you change and grow over the next month!



Milestones: In T's second month, she didn't have any big milestone, but tons of little ones.  She had a lot of firsts like outings to St. Joe's Picnic and the Kentucky State Fair, she moved from a bucket seat to her convertible seat, had her first ride to VA lasting 8.5 hours (and then home again to KY), her first beach trip dipping her toes in the Atlantic Ocean and her bum in the sand, meeting family and friends and sending big brother C off to preschool.  She was diagnosed with reflux and put on Zantac and we're still fighting her clogged tear ducts that can lead to nasty green goopy eyes sometimes.  Month two was full of fun adventures for T and our little family of 5!

Sunday, August 2, 2015

Little Miss - 1 Month Update




Weight/Height: From her 1 month well checkup on August 6: she weighs 11.15 pounds (98th percentile), measures 21.5 inches (60th percentile) and has a big 'ol noggin like her brothers at 40 centimeters (95th percentile).

Eating: Our best intentions were to get T on a schedule.  C was on a strict 3 hour schedule, E was more of an on-demand babe, and we felt like with our lives now we'd all function better knowing the schedule.  Then T came along and decided that she was super laidback and easy so we're on what I'm calling a hybrid schedule.  We track everything and try to keep her eating every 3 hours or so, but when little miss wants doesn't need to eat every 3 hours overnight, more power to her.  We won't be waking her up and forcing it.  And we decided that around her one week birthday when I slept through my 12am alarm and she was good until 2:30am.  Her rough schedule is 6am, 9am, 12pm, 3pm, 6pm during the day.  It can fluctuate by an hour or so, especially when she doesn't eat as much overnight.  For instance, she could eat at 6am, but be hungry again at 8am and 9am then go until 1pm, eat at 4pm and around 6:30pm.  She take a final feeding usually between 8pm and 9pm and doesn't eat again until around 2am to 3am.  Then she's eating again between 5am and 6am.  So again, hybrid schedule.  We watch the clock and try to get calories into her, but we are not strict especially since sometime her flexible eating habits benefit us while the boys and I are at playdates or running errands.  In terms of amounts, she's up to 4 ounce bottles.  Sometimes she eats 2 ounces, but most times its a whole 4 ounce bottle.  Her average this month was 23.5 ounces a day.  She had a growth spurt around 2 weeks and ate 28 ounces and we were shocked!  But our pediatrician assures us since she's so big she needs the calories to keep gaining as she should and not lose weight.  She's been consistent at gaining around an ounce a day.  Much like her brothers she can be gassy so we switched from her Enfamil in the hospital to Similac Advanced at home and now we're trying her on Similac Sensitive which is what E ate.  RCWJr doesn't see a difference, but I can a bit.  I think we'll be keeping her on the sensitive going forward. 

Sleeping: As I mentioned above, T is a sleeping champ.  From very early on she was able to sleep long stretches we discovered when I slept through a midnight alarm.  Blessings in disguise!  She typical is going to sleep between 8:30pm and 9:30pm, in the past week she is definitely preferring to be swaddled and going to sleep closer to 8:30pm though.  She sleeps in the Nap Nanny in the cradle by my side of the bed all night until she wakes up with RCWJr around 5:30am - 6:30am.  I hear her stirring usually between 2am - 3am and give her a dreamfeed.  I call it that because she isn't totally awake, she's making grunts and trying to break out of her swaddle but still mostly asleep so I snuggle her up, give her a bottle and she's out again until the morning.  It's been amazing!  She also sleeps often during the day as well.  I keep telling people and I'm afraid I'm jinxing it and I'm awaiting her to wake up from what I've been calling her newborn slumber, but a month in and so far we're still good.  Depending on our day and schedule, she usually hangs out awake in the morning, take a mid morning nap until lunch, hangs out awake for a bit around lunch time and then naps in the afternoon (during the boys naps - all 3 littles sleeping at once!?  Can I get an AMEN!?!), then she's awake during dinner and ready for bed and overnight sleeping starting around 8:30pm.  While she wants to break out of swaddles, a tight swaddle does help her calm down and sleep.  She's also our paci baby and uses one for self-soothe to fall asleep at times.  She also enjoys a swing (we purchased a used one from my mom group) and she likes being on her side whether falling asleep on us all curled up in a tight fetal ball on her right side on my chest or being transferred into the bouncy seat on her side and wrapped with a muslin blanket to keep her tight. We also are using our trusty white noise machine which calms her almost instantly.  She definitely likes her environment to mimic the ambient sounds and tightness of the womb to help her sleep well. She averaged about 15-16 hours of a sleep a day in her first month.

Diapers: Miss T's bum has been only in disposables except for photoshoots.  Oops!  Our goal is to get her in cloth starting off month two while she's at home.  We'll be doing a hybrid cloth system of cloth at home, disposables out and about and overnight, much like we did with E.  With 3 littles its all about ease for this momma!  She could barely fit into a Pampers Swaddlers Newborn size in the hospital, so we quickly were in Size 1.  But around her 3 week birthday we moved on to Pampers Swaddlers Size 2.  She should be in those for a while now and month two will detail more about what size she's in for FuzziBunz - hopefully cloth will work for her as well as it did for C and E.


Clothes: Unlike her brothers, Little Miss had no clothes.  We didn't buy anything and honestly I thought we'd be using the boys handmedowns for another boy.  Her wardrobe has grown quickly thanks to gifts from family and friends and handmedowns from friends with girls.  She went from about 6 onesies and 4 rompers to more clothes than we can count and we're discussing where to store all her lovelies since she currently doesn't have a nursery while she's staying in our room (and we figure out if we're staying in our current house, moving to a new house in KY or looking to move back to VA).  The silver lining of not knowing if she was a girl or a boy is that we didn't have a ton of newborn and 0-3/3 month girl clothes she'd never wear because T is already rocking out in 3-6 months and 6 month size onesies and rompers from Target, Gymboree, Janie & Jack and Carter's.  The only item she has in a size 3 month is her very first white seersucker bubble from Smocked Auctions.  Oh and girl clothes - its a whole new world for this momma!  I very quickly embraced it and have purchased T her first Beaufort Bonnet, bubble and Eleanor Rose dress and bloomers for next summer.  Its a slippery slope and not so great for the bank account!  But seersucker, bubbles, ruffle bums and mixed patterns are just too adorable and preppy not to love!

Social Butterfly: Being little #3 and a summer babe, once I was cleared to drive we were out and about to our regular routine.  T has been with us to parks and playgrounds, Louisville Mama and Me playdates, errands to Kroger, Sam's Club, Target and we went back to church with her in tow in the Boba wrap at 10 days old.  She's done great, mostly sleeping in the wrap on my chest with the occasional feeding out and about.  She's waking up more and starting to lock in on me or RCWJr during feedings, seems to respond by turning her head at her name and is being very adored, loved and well cared for by her big brothers!

Playtime: I swear it seems like T is always asleep, but while awake she's usually hanging out in her bouncy seat or new to us swing.  But if she hangs out in the swing too long, she'll end up asleep again.  We just got her a new playmat, I was never a fan of the boys' and I found one I loved - Bright Starts Pink Safari with a pink elephant - on Craigslist for $10.  #winning  So, going into month two we'll start attempting more tummy time and utilizing the playmat.  She loves being held and I adore snuggling her.  She enjoys her head being rubbed, her pacifier and looking outside whether peering out the window from her bouncy seat or peeking over my shoulder while being held.  She's trying to hold her head up more as the month has gone on during burps and being held and she grasps my fingers while being fed or when C or E is holding her as they proclaim, "She's holdin' my finga!"

Personality: T is amazing.  She's laidback, calm and easy.  She has her fits due to burps or gas or her personal witching hours around 7:30pm - 9:30pm, which we learned the hard way going out to a church event one Wednesday night.  RCWJr claims she's like this because she's a girl, I think its because she has a full happy belly and our pediatrician told us its because God has mercy on those of us who have baby #3!  Whatever it is, I'm embracing it and loving it.  She's a sweetheart who I tend to call 'Sweetness' instead of T.  She's just so snuggly and lovey and chill.  I can't wait to see her personality begin to come out more over the next month.



Milestones: In T's first month, she didn't have a grand milestone, but lots of little ones.  She stayed with her first babysitter, Miss C, where she slept the entire 3 hours foiling momma's grand plan to let Miss C and T get acquainted before Miss C is left alone with all 3 littles.  She had a pool afternoon with the whole family, went to all our favorite stores (one day included 3 different Targets in one morning while I was on a hunt for bows to send a dear momma friend expecting a little girl), went to playgrounds, parks and splash pads, managed to go to church 4 weekends in a row and had one night where she slept without a dreamfed (it was due to a late feeding that night we went to church - it wasn't worth it to keep her awake when she wants to be asleep though!).  And not so much a milestone, but worth mentioning - during month one T fought off a nasty infection from clogged tear ducts.  She was on 2 antibiotics, with the second being very strong because our pediatrician thought it could be a staff infection.  As I'm typing this Little Miss is much better, no more pooling of tears and waking up with green goopy eyes - praises!

Friday, July 17, 2015

The Birth Story - In Pictures

I had hoped to get this posted on T's 2 week birthday, but c'est la vie, day late and I'll take it as we transition to this momma being solo with 3 littles ages almost 3.5 and under.  There are 62 pictures taken by RCWJr and our amazing photog, Sarah with Little White Whale Photography.  Sarah's awesome and has been with us since C's newborn pictures.  Best investment ever is having a photographer at the hospital on babe's birth day - I always adore the images she captures.  Also, there is a picture of T being born, its picture #10 just FYI in case you don't want to see that and there is also a picture of me trying to breastfeed T, it isn't graphic, but again just a warning, its picture #29. But without further ado, here's T's birth story in pictures with as few words as I know how to possibly type.

Wednesday, July 1, 2015 4:00pm - Last weekly bump shot at 38 weeks with 2 little helpers

Wednesday, July 1, 2015 4:18pm - Final Family of 4 pictures with the pups and a cat


Wednesday, July 1, 2015 8:17pm - Momma saying goodnight to her 2 boys - All the feelings!


Thursday, July 2, 2015 5:50am - Final Bump Shot of W3 in triage room


Thursday, July 2, 2015 6:33am - All hooked up to monitors and hanging out in triage

Thursday, July 2, 2015 7:09am - RCWJr in his OR attire

Thursday, July 2, 2015 7:42am - Heading to the OR to finally meet W3!!!


Thursday, July 2, 2015  7:56am - RCWJr's view while waiting to come into the OR

Thursday, July 2, 2015 8:04am - RCWJr was finally in the OR with me


Thursday, July 2, 2015 8:11am - TCW is born!!! And she's a girl!!


Thursday, July 2, 2015 8:14am - Nurses taking care of T


Thursday, July 2, 2015 8:17am - T's official weigh in


Thursday, July 2, 2015 8:18am - Modeling her first pink bow!


Thursday, July 2, 2015 8:20am - Meeting T for the first time


Thursday, July 2, 2015 8:21am - Giving T her first kiss from momma


Thursday, July 2, 2015 8:51am - We made it into the recovery room


Thursday, July 2, 2015 8:59am - Snugging T in recovery and falling in our with our little girl


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:04am - We had moved to our post partum room 380 and the nurse was giving T her assessment


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:11am - Getting her official footprints done


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:13am - Getting T's foot prints for our third little canvas to display at home


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:15am - RCWJr cutting her cord shorter


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:18am - Miss T just hanging out


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:20am - Heel warmer on her foot to get ready for her first of many sugar level heel pricks


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:21am - Nurse testing her first sugar level which was 45 and started our journey to get her stabilized


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:33am - Nurse burping T as we tried and tried and tried to nurse


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:36am - Attempting to nurse while RCWJr feeds me ice chips


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:41am - And I was done.  I included this because my meltdown over nursing was a major moment for me emotionally during her birth story


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:55am - Snuggles with T despite my meltdown, frustrations and feeling really sick from being hot and nauseous.


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:57am - RCWJr getting out our pink hat and bows to accessorize T before she met her brothers for the first time


Thursday, July 2, 2015 10:58am - RCWJr putting his first (of many) bows on T


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:00am - C and E coming in the room with RCWJr to meet their new baby T


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:01am - C getting a good look at T


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:02am - E's turn to see T


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:08am - First Family of 5 Shot


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:10am - C bringing Grandma and Grandpa B. into the room to introduce baby girl T with RCWJr


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:18am - RCWJr showing T to C and E a bit more up close and personal


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:19am - This picture cracks me up and shows the boys so well!  C loves T and wants to see her and help, meanwhile E's being a typical almost 2.5 year old and playing with the shades to look out the big window!


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:20am - In case it wasn't clear, RCWJr is over the moon to have a little girl!


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:23am - C holding T for the very first time ever!


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:24am - E's holding T for the very first time ever!

Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:25am - Finally Grandma B. got to hold T


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:27am - Then Grandpa B. got to hold T


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:29am - Momma and Daddy with Miss T


Thursday, July 2, 2015 11:32am - Another family of 5 picture before Sarah left for the day


Thursday, July 2, 2015 12:04pm - After changing clothes and putting on stickers and many attempts we got a picture of the littles to use as our official "It's a Girl" social media announcement and of course it was one of the very last shots - always the way! 


Thursday, July 2, 2015 12:05pm - C holding T again before they left for lunch


Thursday, July 2, 2015 12:05pm - E making sure he's still getting some attention - hahaha!


Thursday, July 2, 2015 12:05pm - But really E adores T too, just in smaller increments of time than C


Thursday, July 2, 2015 7:17pm - After an afternoon being alone except nurse checks C and E came back with birth day cupcakes to celebrate T!  Blue for boys and pink for girls.  They also sang Happy Birthday to her - so sweet!


Thursday, July 2, 2015 7:35pm - Final shot of T's birth day - C holding her one last time before he left for the day and so excited that she was holding his finger!