A Critique of High School
From New York Magazine:
But if humans really do feel things most intensely during adolescence, and if, at this same developmental moment, they also happen to be working out an identity for the first timeââsometimes morbidly, often curiously, preoccupied with what they appear to be in the eyes of others as compared with what they feel they are,â as the psychoanalyst Erik Erikson wroteâthen it seems safe to say this: Most American high schools are almost sadistically unhealthy places to send adolescents.
Until the Great Depression, the majority of American adolescents didnât even graduate from high school. Once kids hit their teen years, they did a variety of things: farmed, helped run the home, earned a regular wage. Before the banning of child labor, they worked in factories and textile mills and mines. All were different roads to adulthood; many were undesirable, if not outright Dickensian. But these disparate paths did arguably have one virtue in common: They placed adolescent children alongside adults. They were not sequestered as they matured.
Now teens live in a biosphere of their own. In their recent book Escaping the Endless Adolescence, psychologists Joseph and Claudia Worrell Allen note that teenagers today spend just 16 hours per week interacting with adults and 60 with their cohort. One century ago, it was almost exactly the reverse.
Something happens when children spend so much time apart from adult company. They start to generate a culture with independent values and priorities. James Coleman, a renowned mid-century sociologist, was among the first to analyze that culture in his seminal 1961 work, The Adolescent Society,and he wasnât very impressed. âOur society has within its midst a set of small teen-age societies,â he wrote, âwhich focus teen-age interests and attitudes on things far removed from adult responsibilities.â
Yes, his words were prudish, but many parents have had some version of these misgivings ever since, especially those whoâve consciously opted not to send their kids into the Roman amphiÂtheater. (From the website of the National Home Education Network: âIronically, one of the reasons many of us have chosen to educate our own is precisely this very issue of socialization! Children spending time with individuals of all ages more closely resembles real life than does a same-age school setting.â)
In fact, one of the reasons that high schools may produce such peculiar value systems is precisely because the people there have little in common, except their ages. âThese are people in a large box without any clear, predetermined way of sorting out status,â says Robert Faris, a sociologist at UC Davis whoâs spent a lot of time studying high-school aggression. âThereâs no natural connection between them.â Such a situation, in his view, is likely to reward aggression. Absent established hierarchies and power structures (apart from the privileges that naturally accrue from being an upperclassman), kids create them on their own, and what determines those hierarchies is often the crudest common-Âdenominator stuffâlooks, nice clothes, prowess in sportsâÂrather than the subtleties of personality.

