Dear Family and Friends,
A couple of months ago, we had purchased tickets to go to Turkey as a couple. When our plans didn't work out and we had to postpone our trip, we decided to bring the kids along with us despite some of the unknowns of going to a new continent and region.
We arrived at our destination in the city of Izmir in central western Turkey late at night. We then had to pick up a car and drive an hour to our hotel in the town of Selcuk near the ruins of Ephesus. Nevertheless, as soon as we pulled up to the small boutique hotel, we were greeted by the son of the hotel owner, who enthusiastically helped us carry our bags and get us settled for the night.
At 6:00am the next morning, we were awoken to the eerie chanting of the Muslim call to prayer being broadcast from a nearby mosque. This was our first real clue that we had ventured beyond the normal confines of Europe and had stepped into an entirely new culture. However, any apprehensions that we may have had as a result of this wake up call were dispelled at breakfast where we found friendly hotel staff, a delicious Turkish breakfast with foods that even the kids liked, and helpful fellow guests who were willing to help in any way possible.
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| Selcuk - Ancient baths (lower left) and Roman Corinthian capital on sidewalk (upper left) |
After leaving the hotel, we walked up the street to the Isa Bey Mosque a few blocks away. This thirteen century mosque was obviously still used for daily prayers, but was surrounded by ruined walls and minarets.
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| Isa Bey Mosque |
Due to the relative proximity of Selcuk to Ephesus, some tour buses come into town to see the mosque. Consequently, some small shops were set up around the mosque, including one at which we met a very nice imam (muslim priest), who volunteered to write our names in Turkish arabic calligraphy.
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| Basilica of St. John |
After visiting with the imam, we set off up the road to visit the ruins of the sixth centry Basilica of St. John. This church was constructed in 536 AD in honour of St. John, who travelled to Ephesus prior to his excile to Patmos. It is also believed that he came back here after Emperor Nerva later pardoned him. While the tomb of St. John is in a prominent place in the church ruins, there was never any body or relic found in it.
| Byzantine Baptismal Font |
One of the most interesting things that we found was a baptistery partially filled with rain water and very much looking much like it did over 1,500 years ago. At the time this was built by the Byzantines, baptism by immersion was practiced. The font is rectangular with several steps leading down to the water. There are also fire pits on either side to warm the water. When the Catholic church started practising infant baptism by the 9th century and sprinkling replaced immersion, such baptismal fonts were no longer used.
| Mosque within the Walls of Ottoman Fortress (photo taken from ramparts) |
While we were virtually the only tourists to explore the site at that time, we were followed at a distance by one of the staff. As we reached the end of the church ruins, he came over to us and asked us if we wanted to visit the nearby Ottoman Turkish fortress for a "fee" of 150 Turkish Lira (about 75 dollars). This was of course too much for us, but Joe pulled out about 15 TL in loose change, which he gladly accepted.
To get to the fortress, we had to go through two locked gates. Once inside, he took us to an old mosque in the middle of the complex and showed us the dilapidated stairs of an old minaret (prayer tower). Joe took a look, but declined our guide's invitation to climb the very narrow, winding stairs to the top. However, Julie was able to make it to the top and get a spectacular view of the surrounding country.
As we made our way back to the gate, the guide insisted that Joe climb a three-story, one-foot wide, thousand-year old staircase to the ramparts. As Joe could tell that our guide was very keen that we get our money's worth, he accepted the challenge. Nevertheless, Joe had some moments of regret once he got a few stories up and had to cling to the rocks of the wall just to keep from falling off the dangerous steps.
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| Cave of the Seven Sleepers |
After our exciting tour of Selcuk, we drove towards the ruins of Ephesus. Along the way, we stopped at the cave of the Seven Sleepers, which includes the ruins of a church and an ancient cemetary. According to local legend, seven Christian youths came to the cave seeking refuge from persecution in the fourth century. When the king found their hiding place, he reportedly walled up the cave. Two centuries later, a shepherd re-opened the cave and awoke the seven sleeping youths, who were surprised to find that so much time had passed and that Christianity had become the accepted religion of the state.
| House of Mary |
Before going to Emphesus, we drove into the mountains to visit the house of Mary. According to legend, John brought the mother of Jesus here after leaving Jerusalem and she reportedly lived here until her death. Today, the first century dwelling is sacred Catholic site and is well guarded.
While the inside of the house has been converted into a Catholic church with all of the normal Catholic trappings, the overall site is peaceful and it's interesting to contemplate John and Mary coming to this site above the great city of Ephesus almost two thousand years ago.
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| Public Lavatories, streets, statue of Nike, and cats in Ephesus |
After an already eventful day, we finally arrived at Ephesus and began a trek through the massive ruins. At the time of Christ, this city was one of the largest cities in the Mediterranean and home to more than 250 thousand people. In fact, we had to walk several kilometers to get from one side of the site to the other.
After stopping several times to allow the kids to get acquanted with the local cats, Julie found the ancient public lavatories. Though the marble seats looked comfortable, there wasn't much distance between them. To deal with the noise of so many people there at the same time, a stage was constructed in the middle on which a musician would play.
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| Library of Celsus and Harbor Road |
One of the most magnificant ruins at Ephesus was the library of Celsus. This multiple-story building was constructed around 125AD and housed over 120 thousand scrolls. In front of the entrance, there were statues symbolizing wisdom, knowledge, intelligence, and valor.
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| Porch Houses, Teracotta pipes, Temple of Artimes |
After taking a much needed muffin break at the site shop, we decided to pay an extra fee to visit the Terrace Houses, which included six residential houses over which a roof and walls has recently been constructed to protect the many frescos and mosaics. While we were skeptical at first, we were soon facinated by this cutaway view of ancient roman life as we walked on a glass boardwalk suspended over the site. Joe was particularly interested to see how they had used interconnecting terracotta pipes to provide indoor plumbing and to vent stoves.
Of course, one of our main reasons for coming to Ephesus was to see the city that had once been a ward of the ancient Christian church and home to Paul and John. At the massive theater, we thought about the riot of the silversmiths who were afraid that Paul's teachings would ruin their trade in statues of artemis.
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| Food in Selcuk - Turkish Delight (Lokum), breakfast, Julie and Joe (left bottom) and Nicolas (left top) in caligraphy |
After a busy day of visiting the sites, we drove into Selcuk to find dinner. Not knowing where to find the best restaurants, we settled for an outdoor cafe that sold donner kababs. Our waiters were the eleven-year old sons of the owner, but in the end we were very happy with our large sandwiches and the price. For desert, we found a local shop specializing in Turkish Delight and spent some time assembling a box containing some of each of the different varieties available, including honey and walnut, chocolate, pistachio, pomegranate, and several others.
That evening, we drove to the nearby city of Kusadasi on the coast and tried our hand at carpet buying. This process involved going into a large room and watching as the salesman unfurled rug after rug. After an hour of this, several of our favorites were set aside and the haggling over prices begun. While Joe thought he had prepared adequately for this ritual, in the end the saleman prevailed in the bargaining. Still, we ended up with a very unique, but heavy treasure to cart with us back to France.
For our final day in Selcuk, we stopped off at what remains of the Temple of Artemis, one of the Seven Wonders of the ancient world, before going to church in the costal city of Izmir. The branch consisted of one missionary couple, who was all too happy to have us visit since proselytizing had been banned recently and the families of the American basketball players and US servicemen had moved on. Fortunately, two single adults who were visiting the area also came to church, so it turned out to be a record-breaking attendance for the branch (at least recently).
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| View from Hotel, Egyptian Obelisk |
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| The Blue Mosque |
We then walked a couple of blocks to the Blue Mosque, one of the two largest mosques in the world. As it is still used for daily worship, we had to abide by the dresscode posted at the entrance. This included removing and carrying our shoes and women wearing a headscarf to cover their head.
Unlike many of the other types of churches that we have visited, Islam doesn't allow paintings of figures inside its mosques because muslims believe they detract from true worship. Instead, the mosque was covered in ornately decorated blue tiles for which the mosque gets its name.
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| The Grand Bazaar in Istanbul |
Some of the most interesting aspects of visiting the bazaar were the salesmen. As we frequently got lost, we would sometimes pass the same merchant several times. One particular rug salesman found something funny to say to us each time we walked by, like claiming that he was "about to die from holding his breath so long" for our family to enter his shop. Despite a few overly agressive merchants, most of them were just trying to have fun with the customers and were basically good-natured.
Nevertheless, we did venture out of the bazaar to try and find the spice bazaar some blocks away. We soon found ourselves in the "real" Istanbul with thousands of people in the streets doing their daily shopping. Since it was already difficult to try and keep everyone together, we decided to get out of the crowd and retreat back to the relative calm of the bazaar.
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| A few of our finds in Istanbul |
A friend of ours had warned us that the people in Turkey would love our blond kids. In fact, Nathaniel had his hair rubbed by almost every merchant, waiter, hotel manager, and airline ticket agent that we encountered. Our children's grandparents will not be surprised to hear that for our kids, the most thrilling "sights" in Turkey were the cats! In the end, our overall impression of Turkey was that it is a modern secular country with interesting mix of middle eastern and European culture. Hopefully, the experience was as memorable for the kids as it was for us!
Joe, Julie, Nicolas, Elyse, and Nicolas
P.S. After arriving in Turkey, we realized that our camera was missing. Fortunately, Joe had reminded Nathaniel to pack his camera just before leaving. Unfortunately, it happened to be the cheapest of the kids' cameras and the one with a prominent fingerprint on the lens!


























