I have been informed that it is taking me way too long to post more of this story, so I will try and pick up the pace!
SUNDAY NOVEMBER 14th 2004:
My roommates and I left for Jon's apartment for our dinner invite, which normally would have THRILLED me, but tonight I was more disappointed that I'd had to leave my new friend Nathan behind. Dinner was tasty (Jon is a great cook), and then we headed up to the Manwaring Center for a fireside their ward was having, which Jon had put a video together for. It was fun, but I was anxious to get back to Carriage House in time for ward prayer. Mind you, ward prayer was NOT one of those things I usually looked forward to with any anticipation....but it was tonight!
I got to ward prayer and hoped that by some chance Nathan was there. The good news? He was! The bad news? Well, I need to give some background info first. (From this point on, I suspect that some of you faithful readers may lose interest from sheer disgust at how superficial I really am). Up until this point (aside from the cross country race), everytime I'd seen Nathan he was wearing his suit and tie. And he looked great in them, I might add. The bad news of the night at ward prayer? He was not in his suit. (sigh) Perhaps only Emily can imagine what he was dressed like, since I think she is my only blog reader (aside from Stephanie) who knew Nathan before I got ahold of his wardrobe. At any rate, picture this if you will: hiking boots with tapered jeans, and a hideous red, white and blue striped polo shirt. Yes, he is well aware of my thoughts on those clothes, so don't you worry--should be read this post our relationship with not suffer.
Anyway, after ward prayer there were basically four of us left in the lounge: Nathan, me, Sarah, and Kaleb (a guy in our ward she kind of liked). Sarah and Kaleb put on the movie "Charly," and Nathan and I sat on a back table and talked. Ah, no, let me re-phrase that. We sat on a back table and NATHAN talked. For several HOURS. And everytime there was an airplane shown in "Charly," he pointed it out. To all of us. By the end of the night, I confess that I was disappointed that this possible relationship with him was probably not going anywhere on account of me deciding that he was only interested in himself, which didn't go well with the fact that he was in dire need of being placed on TLC's "What Not to wear." When I got into my apartment that night, my roommates all wanted to know what was going on with me and our home teacher! "Nothing," I told them. "Absolutley nothing!" My fun-loving and crazy roommate Wendy was disappointed, since she'd had big plans for us. "He's from TC Bonnie, he's GOT to be great!" (for those of you obviously not in the loop, "TC" stands for Tri-Cities. Which is also where she is from). After we discussed Nathan, our conversation switched to New Year's. Wendy really wanted me to come up to the Tri-Cities for New years, espcially since I'd never been to Washington before. We looked online for a plane ticket for me, and I found one for under $50, which I was really tempted to get! I decided to think it over that night before doing so.
When I checked on plane tickets either later that night or the next day, they'd gone up! However, I checked again Monday night, and they were back down. Unfortunately, Wendy had really wanted me to fly into Seattle (4 hours away from Tri-Cities), just so we'd have an excuse to see Seattle. The problem with this is that Wendy's mom did NOT want her driving across the state by herself to come pick me up. So, we needed someone that already lived in the Tri-Cities to ride with Wendy over to Seattle when I flew in.....any guesses whose name came to mind? I decided that I wouldn't give up on Nathan QUITE yet. Especially since I needed a favor. So, I did the unthinkable and called him. I definitely surprised him with my phone call, which I could tell then and he would tell you now. I explained my/our dilemma, and his response was: "Bonnie, I do not want to get up before four in the morning to come pick you up in Seattle." My heart sunk. But then he continued: "...but I will." Oh happy day! I booked the ticket and ended up talking (well, listening to him) to him for the next 45 minutes or so. He tells me now that he was so thrilled to have someone not only show interest in him, and talk to him--both after ward prayer and that night when I called him, that that's when he really started to like me. However, he thought then (and still thinks) that the reason I called him that night was because I liked him and just wanted to talk to him--not because I needed his help with ferrying Wendy to Seattle. :-)
Before we got off the phone, he asked me if I would go out with him Saturday night. Yes, my hottie home teacher asked ME on a date! I accepted--of course. Especially when he said that his roommates and him were all planning this group date in which they were going to make tinfoil dinners and have a bonfire and roast marshmallows.I may not camp, but this sounded like a blast to me!
Wednesday he called me up and asked if I wanted to do something that night. He asked me for what I wanted to do--which at first irritated me that he wanted me to plan it. However, he suggested we go play racquetball. I said OK, but at the evening drew close, I had to call and cancel due to the fact that I still had major stuyding to do. "No problem," he said, "I'll come with you and we'll both study." So, that night we found ourselves in the library studying, and at one point being told jokes by Rory.....oh boy howdy.
As for the 'big date' that Saturday? Stay tuned for more!