Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Life Update

I thought I'd update everyone about how life is for us and what's happening here is Gresham World...

Tom...
Tom is BUSY teaching (which is a pretty stressful job as is), doing his principal internship, filling out job applications, leading small group, being a husband and a father. He's got about 4 full-time jobs if you put them all together! Even though life is pretty stressful for Tom, he handles it with grace and peace (I would not pull it off so well). I am amazed at his reliance on God and his determination, dedication and the hard work he puts into everything. He is applying for principal jobs up and down the I-5 corridor here in WA and we hope to stay on the west coast of WA. Tom's parents moved over here a few years ago and we would be so heart broken if we had to leave this area. Overall Tom is great, but life is a bit exhausting right now. Can you believe we're going to be adding to the stress by adopting and possibly starting a new job? God, what do you have in store for us :)?

The expression Tom has on his face is how he feels much of the time :)!

This is the face that shows how crazy life is right now - attractive huh!

Here's us looking a little more normal!

Kristin...
As for me, I'm busy with Lowa and Whittaker! They just turned 3 and they are definitely showing signs of independence and "talking back." They are a joy and I love being their mom, but they can also be trying at times! This past week I had the opportunity to go visit my mom and dad, my grandma and grandpa, my aunt and my nieces and nephew across the state. For Christmas, Tom and I gave my mom my time and some paint supplies for painting her living and dining room. I flew over and spent the weekend with her. While there I got to visit with my grandpa who has recently been diagnosed with bone cancer - totally devastating. I had the chance to visit with my grandparents and it was wonderful! My mom and I had a great time being together and having girl time! We got both rooms painted and they look great! Way to go Mom! As for the adoption, I'm just excited to meet our child/ren and see who God had blessed us with. I have also been very burdened with the devastation in Africa. God has asked me if "I'm ready for what's next beyond adoption." I am so heavy over what these families are having to go through and the devastation of AIDS. It is literally wiping out a generation. The after effects of this are so far reaching beyond just Africa. I want to do SOMETHING! Tom and I were talking tonight and saying that there are so many things up in the air for us right now - it's crazy. We don't know if or where Tom will be a principal this upcoming year, we don't know if that means moving, we don't know when we'll get a referral, who will be our child/ren (one or two), we don't know when we'll travel. This list of things "up in the air" goes on and on! We definitely need prayer about all of this. That's where I'm at with life :)!

Visiting my grandma and grandpa.

Mom and her house before...

Mom's house after... Way to go MOM!

Lowa...
Lowa just turned 3 and had a great birthday. With 3 comes lots of talking, fun and playing. She and Whitt have been very busy playing dinosaurs, picking blackberries (every little toy they can find goes into little buckets they have), playing ponies, kitty, puppy, etc., building with blocks, coloring (which Mamaw gave her lots for her b-day), and anything else you can think of. For their birthday Tom's parents gave them gymnastics lessons. She is loving gymnastics!
She likes to flip around on the bars and walk on the balance beam. She is so adorable! The other day it was so sweet because she was holding her baby and said to Whitt, "This is my baby sister." I think she's looking forward to having another sibling!

Lowa playing red light, green light. This is her forced smile :).

Happy birthday Lowa (this is her princess cake).

Lowa coloring wrapped up in her blanket.

We took L & W swimming for their b-day - we all had a blast!

Whitt...
Whitt just turned 3 as well! He had dinosaurs for his theme and thoroughly enjoyed the dinos he got for his b-day (thanks Mamaw and T & T). He is busy being a boy and LOVES gymnastics. His teacher commented that he is quite naturally athletic (we always thought so, but you never know b/c they're your own kids.) He loves throwing the balls in the hoop, doing donkey kicks and jumping off of stuff (thanks g-ma and g-pa)! Whitt loves playing with Lowa and will do almost anything she wants (this was the same set-up w/ my brother and I - poor guys). Whitt is getting more and more excited to have a brother or sister and I know he will be an amazing brother.

Whitt and Grandma at Whitt's B-day!

Whitt after drinking hot chocolate w/ his goofy smile :).

Whitt eating his dino birthday cake - yum!

So there you have it! You should be caught up. Hope all is well for everyone else!

Love, The Greshams

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Happy Valentine's Day!

Valentine's Day is the day for celebrating love - and I have a reason to celebrate!! My husband is an amazing man and I LOVE being married to him. I can't imagine my life any other way. Even though life is crazy right now with adoption, internship and every day living, he still manages to make me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. We got to go on a date night tonight (thanks to Tom's amazing parents - you guys are awesome!!). We have both had a long week, but it was great to be able to talk and reconnect. This is my chance to say how much I love my man and how thankful I am for him! I hope everyone had a wonderful Valentine's Day!


Friday, February 8, 2008

New Waiting List Numbers

We heard from our case worker yesterday and we have moved up on the waiting list!! When we first got on the waiting list, we started at number 20 overall, #13 for a girl and #11 for a boy (Jan. 3rd). On Jan. 10th, we had moved up to #12 for a girl, and #10 for a boy. As of yesterday (Feb. 7th), we are#14 on the overall list, #10 for a girl, and #6 for a boy (although based on the # of referrals that went out this month for boys, I think there might be a chance we're actually #7 - not sure). It's exciting to know that God has placed some children with their forever families and of course, we are also excited that we are closer to knowing our beautiful child/ren! Once again, I hold onto the knowledge that this is all in God's timing and this will happen when it is supposed to happen!

Our prayers have very much been with the biological family of our adopted child/ren. We know that this adoption is an incredible blessing to us and that God has laid this upon our hearts, but we also know that the biological family must be going through a tremendous amount of pain and grief. Adoption is so wonderful and difficult at the same time.

Once again, thank you to everyone who is loving, supporting and praying for us through this process. We are so grateful!

Sunday, February 3, 2008

Today Marks One Month on the Waiting List

We have officially been on the waiting list for one month today! The updated report from AGCI is that the new time frame for being on the waiting list to getting a referral is 2-6 months (when we first started the process, the wait time was 2-4 months). This means we're between either being halfway there or one sixth of the way there :)! At times it's hard to wait, but at other times, I think - "Yeah, we're already one month down." I know that whoever is supposed to be in our home, will be here in God's perfect timing.

I should be hearing from our case manager next week as to whether we've moved up on the waiting list. I'm excited to talk to her and see how everything is going. Now that we're on the waiting list, we get a call once per month to tell us our updates. The only other time we'll get a call is if there is a referral. I'm really looking forward to that day :)!

Another Mom who has adopted from Ethiopia - Suzi is making and selling beautiful blankets for fundraising for their next adoption. They are beautiful, check out her blog at http://redmansjourney.blogspot.com/

There is also another wonderful family - The Beelers selling T-shirts to raise funds for Hannah's Hope in Ethiopia. Check out her blog at http://www.adoptionwear.blogspot.com/

That's our news for now. We'll update when we know more...