Our story

Dennis & I (Darlene) have created this blog to share with all of our friends and family our journey to adopt. The journey began when we met, fell in love and our desire to begin our family. We struggled for 6 years unsuccessfully to have children. Talk of adoption was something we had always considered and in April of 2007 we thought heaven had opened up when we were introduced to a birth mother who wanted to have us adopt her son. After several months of supporting her and her other child throughout the pregnancy our dreams fell apart when the birth mother scammed us not only out of our money but broke our hearts into a million pieces. Dennis was left to pick up the pieces and has reassured me every step of the way with his love and never ending devotion to our dreams of having a family.

Dennis and I started the long process of adopting from Kazakhstan and in 2008 we meet our son Nicholas.

We are now beginning the long process to adopt a sibling for Nicholas and it looks like Russia is where we will be heading next and hope in 2010 we meet our child!

We hope you will join us on our journey as we will do all our updating on this site. As always your love, prayers, good wishes & support mean the world to us. Thank you for being such an important part of our lives.







Thursday, November 26, 2009

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!

We are most grateful & forever thankful for the love of our lives Nicholas

Nicholas on his first carousel ride


On November 14th we went to see Disney on Ice.....

Our seats were front row right on the ice....................

He loved seeing Mickey up close


Photos photos & more photos

My beautiful niece and her very beautiful daughters..........

Patri, Amanda & Noelle


Nick & his cousin Noelle


Just being cute

Really cute


Working.........no playing at the farm


Nick has a new fascination for trains........I'm sure a trip to see Thomas is in our future


Our first time going out on the wave runner....he is all ready to go


And who wanted to drive.................


All ready for a wacky water day at school - we refer to daycare as school

His backpack is just about his size yet he insists he wear to the car


Heading out the door one morning for school & work


Nick's daycare is the best - actaully it is the greatest daycare.
Dennis & I and most importantly Nicholas love it......ABC's, 1 -25, his full name (which is a mouthful for a 2 1/2 year old) our full address, Nick speaks in full sentences and he can sign...........not only Momma & Poppa, please & thank you & various letters of the alphabet but much to our surprise when Dennis was taking him for a haircut and they were walking in Poppa asked him to say "Happy Thanksgiving" Nicholas said Happy Thanksgiving and signed it as well!

He has picked up a few of our habits.........




Yes we are forever thankful!

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Nicholas' First Halloween

Last year we chose not to celebrate Halloween since Nicholas was only home 2 weeks - I really didn't think it was a good idea as I didn't want to overwhelm him.

So this year was his first Halloween & a great time was had by all!!

Nicholas' day care had a Halloween party & parade and I'm so glad I was able to attend - his daycare is great and they throw an awesome party.

Here is Nick as Captain Feather sword (Wiggles) on Friday



We had joined a Parent child workshop at our Library and Saturday they had a music party for the last group





Here's the little man aka Elmo



Saturday, October 17, 2009

Home one year.................

Here is our son Nicholas last October when he arrived home (10/17/08)



Here is Nicholas exactly one year later (10/17/09)

Friday, August 21, 2009

One year later..............

Our lives were forever blessed on August 20th, 2008
when we met the absolute love of our lives..............

August 20th (US) August 21st, 2008 Karaganda, Kazakhstan


August 21st, 2009


All I can say is our son is the most precious, lovable little boy in the world and Dennis & I thank God every minute of every day for our son - our blessing and the light of our lives.

Nicholas is the Sun, the Moon, the Stars and everything that we could have hoped and dreamed of & the love we have for him is overpowering. We talk often about how this one perfect little boy is the greatest gift from God and truly count our blessings every single minute of every single day for granting us the blessing of Nicholas Joseph. We love this child more than anything in the world.

Nicholas has been home for nine months and I have so much to write about - truth be told I have 2 draft posts waiting to finish but I didn't want to miss this very special day.....here of some random photos to enjoy!


Nicholas loves to wait by the door for our trash collectors....the frog sings "Celebrate" and was gift sent by his aunt Donna & Uncle Michael.


He is a boy who loves motorcycles


Sharing some corn on the cob with Poppa


Tickling Poppas feet to wake him up...........


To mark our special day we went to a Wiggles concert....he was in awe


Waiting for the garbage men (note the special shirt)


Going to Jeannine & Tony's wedding


In Mexico napping with Poppa



Yankees fan


Enjoying the computer


A very happy Wiggles fan

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Catching up..........

Mother's Day, May 10th, 2009

Mother's Day was everything I new it would be.....I have a beautiful little boy who I can't love more and who loves me a whole bunch and he now tells me........

I have always wanted a charm bracelet and what a wonderful surprise to get this.......we will add on to it with milestones over Nicholas' life.........

Not one to brag but yes I must.....

Not only can Nicholas count pretty well up to 25 but if we ask him to count how many of something he can actually count - I'm thinking this is great for a child of 2.

Nicholas will say excuse me to put his little step up to the bathroom sink - this one I must give credit to daycare as they work on manners every day.

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Mexico, April 18 - 25th, 2009

As I mentioned in my earlier post Dennis won a trip to Rivera Maya in Mexico (25 minutes south of Cancun). We didn't know how the little man would do with the traveling so silly me I pushed for a connecting flight just in case we had an issues. I figured time in between to regroup if need be.....very silly of me....he has more air miles then most and he did terrific and flying was pretty much a breeze. No issues with the little man with no real meltdowns which was great......

Here are some photo hi lights.....









Everyday Nicholas napped poolside.... life sure is tiring when


your swimming around with Poppa all day long........







Once he discovered frozen banana drinks he wanted one everyday.........

I love this photo..............

Looks like he had one too many frozen drinks.....


Dennis' co-workers & spouses........out of about 30 folks who won the trip we were the only ones to bring a child.........and everyone loved the little man......



Frozen strawberry was a hit too............



Nicholas is "hiding" from me the morning we were getting ready to leave....

Leaving Mexico.....

Here we are home but apparently Nick is ready to pack up again.......