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I feel like my life is not in my hands.
I want to feel steady again.
I can take one small step at a time.
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A Final Note for Your Safety
This Emotion Code dictionary series is offered as a small guide to help you learn what kinds of emotions the Emotion Code can work with.
If youâve already had an Emotion Code session, I hope this series also helps you deepen your awareness of your own emotions, one gentle step at a time.
This series is not intended to provide medical advice, psychotherapy, diagnosis, or treatment.
If you begin to feel overwhelmed while reading, please pause and step away from the article.
If you are in a difficult situation, feeling unsafe, or carrying a heavy burden in your mind or body, please do not carry it alone. Reach out to someone you trust, a medical or mental health professional, a support service, or emergency resources in your area.
Because this topic may touch tender places for some readers, I have closed the comment section with everyoneâs safety in mind.
Your safety and well-being matter most.
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