
#24.æçã§ä»äºåã¢ããïŒïŒãåãèãã5ã€ã®ããèŠçŽ ã
ããã°ããïŒ
æ¯åã®æ¥ãªçºç±ã«å°æããŠãã ããã¡ ã§ãã
仿¥ã¯ååŸããä¿è²åã®é¢è«ã ã£ãã®ã§ããã
ãæŒããã«æ¥ãªçºç±....
ãåã©ãã¯æ¥ã«ç±åºããããš
èããŠãããŸããããæ¬åœã«æ¥ã§ããæ±
ãããããã£ãšå¢ãããã ãããªããš
èŠæãæ±ºããããåŸãªã仿¥ãã®é ã§ãã
â»çŸåšã¯12å/æã®äžæä¿è²ãå©çšããŠããã
 4æããæ£åŒã«å
¥åãšããæãã§ã
ããŠãä»åã®ããŒãã§ããã
ãæçããããšä»äºåäžããããããïŒã
ãšããå
容ããå±ãããããšæããŸãã
çŸåšãæãå®¶ã§ã¯
æ¯åã®æãã¯ããæ¯åã®ä¿è²åã§ã®ãåŒåœ
å€é£ã«ã€ããŠåãæ
åœããŠããŸãã
æ£ç¢ºã«ããã°æãå®¶ã«ãæ
åœããšãããã®ã¯
ãããŸãããã劻ã®ä»äºã®æéããªããªãæ
ããã®ã§ãã察å¿ããŠããããšããæãã§ãã
â»æãå®¶ã®å®¶äºã®ã¹ã¿ã³ã¹ã¯ãã§ããæ¹ã
ãããããšãã£ãæãã§ã
æçã¯åã©ããçãŸããåããã¡ããã¡ãã
è¡ã£ãŠããŸããããçãŸããŠããã¯æéãšã®
æŠãïŒéãããæéã®äžã§ã
ã»æ©ãïŒãã€ãã®å€é£æéã«éã«åãããïŒ
ã»å®ãïŒã»ãŒã«åã®å®ã飿ã§ïŒ
ã»æšãïŒãŸãé£ã¹ãããã°ãªã±ïŒ
ã確ä¿ããå¿
èŠããããŸãã
åãæåããåºæ¥ãŠããããã§ã¯ãªãã
ãã¡ããšé¬Œã³ãŒãã«æå°ãããªããç éœã
éããŠããŸãããå
äžã®çœ®ãæ¹ãšãããâŠ
ããããããããããïŒâåŠæ ¡ãïŒïŒ
ã§ãããã¯ã人éã¯æ
£ãã§ããã
å°ããã€èŠé ãæŽããŠããŸããã
ãããŠããæãåã¯ããæããŸããã
ãæçãèŠé ããããªãããã®ç·Žç¿ã¯
ãä»äºåã¢ããã«ãç¹ããã ããâŠ..ã
äžèŠãé¢ä¿ããªããããª
ãæçããšãä»äºã
ãã®èšäºã§ã¯æçã«ãã£ãŠã©ããªä»äºåã
éããããã®ãããããŠããã¯æçã«ããã
äœã®å·¥çšãªã®ãã玹ä»ããŠãããŸãã
ãããŸã§ããã¯ããã¡ãèããå
容ãªã®ã§ã
絶察ã§ã¯ãããŸãããããã§ãã¡ãã£ãš
æ°ã«ãªããšããæ¹ã¯ãã²ã芧äžããã
1.äŒç»åãéãããã
ãŸãå§ãã«äŒç»åãããã¯ç®ç«ã決ããããšã
æå³ããŠããŸããæçãšããæŠãã¯ãããã³ã«
ç«ã€åããå§ãŸã£ãŠããŸãã
ã仿¥äœãæçã¯äœã«ããããâŠ.ïŒã
è¿ã
ã®ç®ç«å
容ãé¿ãã€ã€ãå£ç¯ãæ°æž©ãäœèª¿
ãã€ãã³ãã«ãåãããŠããŒãºïŒå®¶æãé£ã¹ã
ããã®ïŒãèããŠããã
æçã®ç®ç«ãèããŠããäœæ¥ãããã¯ãäŒç»ã
ãšèšã£ãŠãéèšã§ã¯ãããŸããã
2.ã¹ã±ãžã¥ãŒã«ç®¡çã身ã«ä»ã
ä»äºã«ãããŠã¯ãããŸã§ã«å®äºããããšãã
ãçŽæãããããŸããäŸãã°ãæçã§ãã
çŽæãšã¯æçãé£ã¹å§ããæéã®ããšã
å€é£ã§ããã°æ°åäœãããšãå€ããšæããŸãã
äžåãã€äœãã®ã¯æéãè¶³ããªãã®ã§ã䞊è¡
ããŠäœã£ãŠããããšã«ãªããŸããããã¹ãŠã®
æçãåãæé垯ã«é£ã¹ãããããã«ããã«
ã¯ããããã®æçã«çæããã¿ã€ãã³ã°ã
鲿ã確èªããªããäœæ¥ããå¿
èŠããããŸãã
ãããïŒã飯çãå¿ãããã
ããã¯ã¹ã±ãžã¥ãŒã«ç®¡çãæ ã£ããã¥ãŒãã³
ãšã©ãŒã®äŸã§ãã
3.äœæ¥ã®åªå é äœã®æèãèœçãã
äŸãã°ã仿¥ã®å€é£ã®ç®ç«ïŒãããïŒã¯
ã»ãµããµãå€§æ ¹
ã»ããããšã»ãããèã®ãã ã«
ã»çŒãéïŒé®ã®åã身ïŒ
ãšããŠãäœããæããããŠãããŸããïŒ
çã®æ£è§£ã¯åãããªãã§ããããããã
æ£è§£ãšãªãã®ã¯ããµããµãå€§æ ¹ãã§ãã
ãªããªãæãæéãæããããã§ãã
ãããŸã§åã®æèŠã§ãããæ®éã«éã§
ç
®èŸŒãã ã2æé以äžã黿°å§åéã§ã
1æéã¯æãããŸããæ®ã2ã€ã®æçã¯
å€§æ ¹ãã³ãã³ãããŠããéã«èª¿çãå®äº
ããŸããããã«ãé¢ããããæåŸã«æã
æããŠããŸã£ãå Žåã2ååã®èª¿çæé
+2æéãèŠããŸãã倧å€å¹çãæªãã§ãã
ã§ã¯ããäžã€ã
ä»åã¯ããããŽãããŒãããäœããŸãã
飿ã¯ã«ããããšãŽããŠãšããããŸã
䜿ããŸããã©ã®é£æããæãæããŸããïŒ
çã®æ£è§£ã¯åãããŸãããããããã
ãããŒãããæ£è§£ã§ãããªããªãåã£ã
åŸã«ããã¬ããè¡ãããã§ãã
ã«ãããã®åŠçã¯ãŽããŠã®ããã¬ãäžã«
è¡ããã®ã§ãããã®ããã«æçã¯é£æã®
åŠçæ¹æ³ãèª¿çæ³ã«ãã£ãŠåŸ
ã¡æéãã
å·¥çšã«ãã£ãŠéããŸãªæ¿ã調çåšå
·ã®
å ææéããããŸããããããã¹ãçºç
ããªãããã«å¹ççã«äœæ¥ããã«ã¯åžžã«
ãåªå
é äœãã®æèŠã身ã«ã€ããå¿
èŠã
ãããŸããåªå
é äœã¯ä»äºã®åºæ¬ã§ããã
ãã ãæãç°ãªãç¹ãããã®ã§æ³šæã§ãã
ããããžãã¹æžã§ã¯ããã«å®äºããã¿ã¹ã¯
ããåŠçããŠããïŒçãªããšãæžãããŠ
ããŸãããå®¶åºã®æçã«ãããŠã¯éã§ãã
æãæéãæãããã®ããæãæããŠã
ãã®åéã§å¥ã®äžåãäœãã
ãã²å¿æããŠããããã§ãã
4.ãã©ã€ã¢ã³ããšã©ãŒã§æ¥ã æé·
宿åŸã®æçãé£ã¹ãŠã
ã»å³ãèããããã¯æ¿ã
ã»å³ãçããããèŸããã
ã»é£æã硬ããããã¯è»ããéãã
ã»é£æãçŠãããççŒã
ãªã©ããŸã«ã¢ã¯ã·ãã³ããçºçããŸããã
ãããã«ã¯å¿
ãäœãåå ããããŸãã
飿ã®åããå ç±æéãèª¿å³æã®åéãªã©
圱é¿å åã¯ããŸããŸã§ãã
ä»äºãšåãããã«äžå
·åã®åå ã調æ»ããŠã
察çãèããŠæ¬¡ã«æŽ»ãããŠã¿ãã
æçã«ãããŠãããã©ã€ã¢ã³ããšã©ãŒãã
ç¹°ãè¿ãããšã§æé·ããéžåã®å®æåºŠã¯
æ¥ã«æ¥ã«äžãã£ãŠãããšæããŸãã
5.ã³ãã¥ãã±ãŒã·ã§ã³æŽ»æ§å
äžè¿°ããå
容ãšã¯ã¡ãã£ãšç°ãªããŸããã
æçãå§ããããã«ãªã£ãŠè·å Žã®ãå§æ§
ïŒãåæ§æã¡ïŒãšç®ç«ã®ããšã ã£ããã
è²·ãåºãã®ããšã«ã€ããŠãçžè«ããããŠ
ãããæ©äŒãå¢ããããã«æããŸãã
ãã©ããã£ãŠç®ç«èããŠãŸãïŒã
ããã®ææã®åã©ãã«äœé£ã¹ãããŠãŸããïŒã
ãªã©æ®æ®µã®ä»äºã§ã¯é¢ãããªãæ¹ãšã®äº€æµã
å³ããã®ã§ããSNSãããã§ããããæçã
ãããŒãã«çºä¿¡ããŠããæ¹ã¯äžçäžã«å€§å¢
ãããŸãããã®åéãã«ãžã£ãŠããããšã§
äžçãåºãã£ãŠãããããããŸããã
ïŒã¡ãã£ãšå€§è¢è£ãããããŸãããç¬ïŒ
ãããã«
ãããã§ãããïŒ
ã¡ãã£ãšããã€ãæãåŠããŸãããã
é ããããšèšã£ããšããã§ã¯ãªãã§ããããïŒ
ã確ãã«ïŒããšæã£ãŠããããå¬ããã§ãã
ãããããã¯éããªããïŒããšãæèŠããã°
ã³ã¡ã³ãåŸ
ã£ãŠããŸãã
ãããŠæåŸã«ãé¡ãããããŸãã
ããã¯æ¥ã
ãããŒãããŒã«æçãäœã£ãŠ
ããã£ãŠããæ¹ãžã®ãé¡ãã§ãã
*æçãäœã£ãŠããã£ãŠãæ¹ãžã®ãé¡ã*
æçæ
åœã®å
šå¡ããããã¯åãããŸãããã
æçãããã«ããã£ãŠããªãèŠæŠããå·¥çšã
åã«ã¯ãããŸããããã¯ãæ¯æ¥ã®ç®ç«ã決ã
ãããšã§ããåé£äºã®é£æã®æ é€ãã©ã³ã¹ã
ãã§ãªããæã»æŒã»å€ã®å
容ãããŠ1é±éå
ã®é£äºã®ç®ç«ã被ããªããã調çè
ã¯èã
ãªããçšæãããŠãããŠãããšæããŸãã
ãªã®ã§ããããããã¡ãª
ãäœã§ãã€ã€ãã
ãç°¡åãªãã®ã§ã€ã€ãã
ã¯ããã³ã»ã³ã¹ã§ãã
ïŒåãèšã£ãããšãããŸããâŠïŒ
ãããŸã§ã
æçã®åå·¥çšãä»äºã§äŸããŠããŸãããã
ãã®çºèšã¯ããã°ãäžåžããæ¹éãäœã
瀺ãããªãç¶æ³ã§è¡ãæ¥åãšåãã§ãã
å®¶æãäœãé£ã¹ããããããããªããŸãŸã
ïŒåžå Žèª¿æ»ãããããçµå¶ç念ããªãïŒ
ãšããããã¹ãŒããŒã§è²·ã£ã飿ãŸãã¯
å·èµåº«ã«æ®ã£ãŠãã飿ã§ã
ïŒéèŠãåãããªãååã®èª¿éãŸãã¯
ãåšåº«ã®æŽçïŒ
ãªããšãªã決ãŸã£ãŠããå€é£æéãŸã§ã«
é»ã
ãšæçãã
ïŒæ¹éäžæã®ãŸãŸæ¥åãé²ããé²æç¢ºèª
ãããªããŸãŸãã£ããã®çŽæãå®ãïŒ
äœã£ãæçããªããšãªãé£ã¹ããã
ïŒçŽåããååããµãŒãã¹ã«å€§ãã
ããã£ãŒãããã¯ã¯ãªãïŒ
ããã§
ããã仿¥ã®ã飯éãªã®ïŒâŠèãããã£ãã
ãšã§ãèšãããã®ãªããç®ãããŠãããªãã
èš³ïŒããŒããªãã§ãã®ãããžã§ã¯ãåæã«
ããé²ãã¡ãã£ãããªãïŒã©ãããããªã
ãããã£ã¡ã®æ¥åãåªå
ããŠãããïŒ
âäºåã«ã©ããªæ¥åã§ããããšèšãããŠãã
ãããªäžåžã ã£ããåã¯æããéŠãâªïžããŠ
ããŸããããããŸããã
äºå®ãäžããç®ç«ãèããå Žåãšãªã¯ãšã¹ã
ãããå Žåã§ã¯ããªã¯ãšã¹ãããã£ãæ¹ã
ãã¡ããã¡ãã飯ãäœããããã§ãã
ïŒåã ãã§ããããïŒïŒ
æçæ
åœãšãã圹å²ãåãäžåããããã®
ã§ãã¿ããªåºæ¥ãããã«ãªãïŒãšã¯æ±ºããŠ
æããŸããããã ãããŸã«ã¯é£ã¹ããã飯
ã®ãªã¯ãšã¹ããããããŠäœã£ãŠãããæ¹ã«
ã仿¥ã®ã飯ãçŸå³ãããããèšã£ãŠãã
ãŠãã ãããé 匵ã£ãä»äºã誰ãè©äŸ¡ããŠ
ãããªãã£ããã¢ãããäžãããŸãããã
åã¯ãããšåãç¶æ³ã ãšèããŸãã
ããšãå€å Žã«ããèšããã¡ãª
ãããããã§ã€ã€ãã
ãã¯ãå€ãã¯èªããŸããããããã¯
ããããããã€ã€ãªã
ã«å€æããŠäŒããŠãããŠãã ããã
èªåãã¡ã®é£åã¯èªåãã¡ã§å®ããŸãããïŒ
äœåãããããé¡ãããããŸãã
â»äžèšã®äŸã§ãããæ±ºããŠæãå®¶ã®ããšã
ãèšã£ãŠããããã§ã¯ãããŸãã
ïŒããã¯ãã£ã¯ã·ã§ã³ã§ãïŒ
æåŸãŸã§ãèªã¿ããã ãæè¬ç³ãäžããŸãã
æŽæ°ã®å±ã¿ã«ãªããŸãã®ã§ã確ãã«ä»äºå
äžãããããªæ°ãããŠãã...ãšæã£ãæ¹ã¯ã
æ¯éãšãã¹ãããé¡ãããŸãã
ãããããã°ãã©ããŒããé¡ãããŸãã
ïŒãã£ã¡ãé·æã«ãªã£ãŠããŸã£ãæ±ïŒ
ïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒïŒ
ä»åã¯æçâŠã§ã¯ãªãä»äºåã«ãã©ãŒã«ã¹
ããŠãã®æ¹ã®ã玹ä»ã§ãïŒããã®äººã¯çµ¶å¯Ÿ
ã«ä»äºã§ãã人ã ãããªããšæ¥ã
åãåæ
ã«ã€ã¡ãŒãžãããŠããã£ãŠããæ¹ã§ãã
ããã ãã
å¶æ¥è·ã«å°±ããŠããã£ããã20代ã®åœŒå¥³ã
å¶æ¥è·ãšããã ãã§ããã人ããã§ããã
ã€ã®ãªã¹ã«çåŠçµéšããã£ãŠè±èªã話ããã
ãã¹ã人æãããïŒããã ããã®èšäºã¯
äŒç€Ÿå¡ãšããŠãããã§ãããããŸããŸãª
èŠç¹ã§ç©äºãèããããŠããå°è±¡ããã
ãŸããæèãæ·±ããšããããããããã®
èŠç¹ã§äžã®äžãèŠãŠãããã ããšã¢ã©ãµãŒ
ã®ããã¡ã¯æ¥ã
åºæ¿ãããã ããŠãããŸãã