thoughts on loss

well ladies, as some of you already know i am now officially single again. ya last time posted it was all about the love and how nice it is to have security in your relationship, ha.

anyways the question for today is something i'm sure we can all relate to, what now? what do you do to deal with the loss of a loved one? in one week i lost my girlfriend of 2 years (on and off) and my grandmother. two very different kinds of loss, but both loss nonetheless. loss like i have never known, help a sister out people....