Eeep.
So I've been Jewish for a little under a year now. The rest of my family is Christian, in one branch or another.

Thing is, I'm getting married. Fiance is also a Jew, so the ceremony will of course be Jewish.

My extended family does not know I am Jewish because we don't talk that often, but they will be invited to the wedding. So what's the proper protocol? Surprise them with their first Jewish wedding? Include a note in the invites? Send them a "BTW, I'm Jewish now" note?

I'm a little worried as to how some might react, and don't know if I should tell them now or let them find out. Thankfully, I don't think any of them would ruin the night if they found out at the wedding, but what is etiquette here?!

xposted to jbcs.